My ka-M.U for almost 6months - inamin na may anak siya sa Ex niya.
To give you a little background, napunta kami sa "fwb" set up. at first, no strings attached talaga pero later on nag agree kami na magkaroon ng strings attached. all goods way before fwb and after fwb set up.
May napag usapan kami before nung fwb set up pa kami. Btw, Me [F25], him [M25]. Yung napag usapan namin is Naopen ko na "huy paano pala kapag may anak ka sa labas? Sasabihin mo ba sakin?". Tinawanan lang niya and he even said "paano nga kung meron?". napa hold back ako pero sabi ko is sa given situation lang namin which is fwb pa non, hindi ko alam?? no issue sakin siguro. like bahala ka sa buhay mo, as long as sakin wala pa hahaha. Same day, tinanong niya ako if yung magiging bf ko may anak sa labas, matatanggap ko ba? I replied "dipende siguro? like for me, aalamin ko muna kung ano nangyari, bakit hindi sila nag work nung baby mommy, and if paano ang magiging set up nila. pero para sakin, sana bago ko maging bf yung tao, alam ko lahat ng past and let's see, if kakayanin ko ba or sad to say, need i-end yung samin."
After non, wala na siya nasabi and hindi na naopen pa yung tungkol don not UNTIL TODAY.
Nagkakabiruan lang kami thru chat, nasabi ko na "baka may anak ka talaga sa labas?"
Shet, ang gago sineen lang ako at ang tagal mag reply? So napaisip na ko "shet so meron nga siguro?" pero iniisip ko na sana wala kasi t@ngina naman sobrang unfair sa end ko.
To cut the story short, inamin niya na meron siyang anak sa ex niya PERO hindi raw siya sure kung sa kanya ba yung bata since ang naging issue sa relationship nila ng ex niya is nagloko si Girl, may cheating na nangyari. Knowing him, highly possible rin na mag loko si guy kasi loko loko siya nung kind of highschool era namin hahaha and kasi nga friends kami way before pa. pero knowing the guy, si ka-M.U ko na as of now, wala akong balita sa kanya nung naging sila ng ex niya. and naging seryoso talaga siya dun sa ex niya.
Ang sakit lang para sakin na for almost 6 months na M.U kami, bakit ngayon lang inopen about dun. alam ko sa sarili ko na hindi ko deserve yun. Until now, wala akong maramdaman nung inamin niya yun kasi parang may inner thoughts ako na expected ko na? Hahaha ang g@go ko ba. Iniisip ko rin na tulugan siya magpa DNA test para sure pero iniisip ko rin na para saan? kasi ayaw ko na may anak siya sa iba? eh paano kung sa kanya nga talaga yung bata? hindi ko talaga alam mararamdaman ko to the point na namamanhid ako ngayon.
Sobrang sakit lang for me. At sobrang unfair.

Hello! I just wanna share my story about having a really nice friend (kino-considered ko sya as my Best Friend). So I just wanna hear ur thoughts about my situation. Apparently I have this friend na sobrang bait and sobrang caring sa personal, as in. Pero when it comes academically mejo napapansin ko na nagiging dependent na sya sakin (maybe because alam nya na I'm a people pleaser). So ayun na nga, lagi syang nag papahelp sa gantong subj etc. As a friend sino ba namn ako para di sya tulungan (kung tulong lang naman), pero amb*b* ko pa rin, napapansin ko na talagang parang ako na lng yung nagawa ng mga works nya, and hindi ko sya macall out since baka ma offend syaa (I'm just afraid na magmukha akong masama pag-pinagsabihan ko syaa) and alam kong ikwkwento nya rin yun sa mga tropa nya.
Also, meron ding time na naghahanap sya ng rrl and may inaasikaso rin ako nun. "Nagpatulong" ulit sya sakin if pede raw bang tulungan ko sya sa paghahanap ng rrl, pumayag naman ako, pero sabi ko after ko sa ginagawa ko. Pero ang ending is ako nanaman yung gumawa. Actually ako pa nga nagedit nung work nya sa google docs nila ng mga ka group nya and ang reason nya sakin is wala raw kase sya sa bahay nila and need na raw ma edit, kung hindi ay papagalitan sya ng leader nya. Naaawa ako na nagagalit that time. Pero as b*b* at people pleaser na kaibigan nya hinayaan ko na lng :).
Ngayong bakasyon na kami, parang wlaa na... di na sya active para maghangout kami or magkamustahan lang. Nagkakausap na lng kami pag nagkakasalubong kami sa school namin since may need kaming ipapirma.
Nashare ko lang tong story ko since nagbubura ako ng mga files dito sa laptop ko, and nakita ko yung mga files na ginawa ko para "matulungan" ko sya.
Alam kong may mali rin ako sa part ko pero idk, I need ur thoughts and insights guys. Thankiess.

Tumitira siya samin. Ako sumusuporta sa kanya habang pinu-pursue nya writing career nya. Tapos nalaman kong may nilalandi siya na iba.
Nanginginig ako at hindi makapaniwala. Ang dami niyang sinabi tungkol sa pangarap niya para sa amin tapos makikita ko na ganon... Kilala niya lahat ng pamilya ko, kaibigan ko - lahat ng luho niya pinagbigyan ko.
Yung isang story na sinulat nya,, tungkol sa pagiging journalist (old job nya) na may jowa na doctor (yung nilalandi nya)... Sinesend niya pa sa kanya yung mga pics na ako ang kumuha. Sinabi niya pa na may oras na siya para sa kanya nung May.
May ang birth month ko. May din yung anniversary namin. Hindi pa nagsi-sink in saken. Uhm. Haha.

Believe it or not, i'm a F and single for 5 years already (I have various reasons for staying so) and there's this guy, school mate ko actually who's intention is not clear at first, we've been friends since 2020 and go out once in a while lang. He knows my story and somehow aware naman what I do and wanted in life. Soooo, the thing is I'm thinking if I'll give him a chance, since the day we started talking but not exclusively dating, on my part but for him sabe nya ako lang ever since. Nakakatakot lang kase he's really a good friend, well that's how I see him for the past years pero for him he always see me as 'someone special' and realization kicks in lang lately since I have an alone time due to isolation. He told me last night na a chance for him ang wish nya for his 30th birthday.
He's a walking green flag, tall and very masculine ang image (he kinda have a resemblance with Jeremy Jauncey and si King WangYu sa Empress Ki LOL!) Engr., not a bread winner, ML lang ang bisyo and hindi into social media, very calm ang personality and on top of all never pa ako nabastos or binastos all throughout ng talking stage namin, even we're on a date. Napapaisip lang ako what will it be like to be in a relationship again, the updates how's your day going it's part of the obligation na dba. Also, the intimacy part my goodness... very tita na.

Why is prince and gang (kids) SO hyped up?? He won 3 shows thats his credit. Why the rest MTV kids get to glorify it as their own. WHAT IS THE HYPEEE.
All that shit-wet is , is that he is from “prince” gang. Banda khud toh performance me hagta hai , fir bhi isko koi nikalega nahi
Aisa kya hai inn logome bhai. Prince ne apna game khela wo jeeta uske shows. Usse in logo ko bachana kyu jaruri hai🙄🙄🙄
Shit wet should be eliminated 🙄🙄

Bhai mene kafi bndo k messages dekhe or vo bol rhe h ki ek koi telegram channel h uss pe 4 may ko paper aa gya tha, toh unn sabko mein btana chahta hu ki bhai uss ss ko dhang se dekho usme neeche edited likha hua h
Or telegram pr ek feature hota h replace file ka jab tum edit vale option pr click krte ho,, jisse tum kisi purane pdf ya file ko nayi file se replace kr skte ho, TUM KHUD BHI TRY KRKE DEKH LO
Toh jin jinko bhi lag rha h ki telegram pr jo 4 may ka paper circulate ho rha h vo shi h, toh maaf krna bhai but vo admin ne bas apni reach k liye NEET k baad edit Kiya h most probably
And I don't think, ki actually mein telegram pr neet ka paper leak hua h, I am not denying ki leak nhi hua h, but telegram pr nhi hua h shayad

Just want to let this out kasi hindi ko na talaga masikmura. I know this girl (~27F) who got engaged recently to her OFW bf (same age sila). I don’t know their real-life dynamics ha but both silang nag ppost sa socmed. They even have those heart lock emoji’s sa profile nila and hina highlight yung stories nila. They’ve been together for 5 years na siguro.
But the girl is having sexual affairs with someone else. I know because I often saw them sa car. From where I live. Akala siguro nila walang makakakita sa kanila kasi barren naman talaga yung lugar and very few houses lang.
The other guy I also know, pero ang alam ko lang is he is courting someone.
I’m hurting for the fiancé and the girl na kino-court ng guy. Nasusuka ako. I’m mad. I want to tell the girl’s fiancée so bad. Lagay natin na he is being true to her pero she’s being like this then she doesn’t deserve this marriage.
I know this pain because I’ve been there. And generally mas painful talaga if the girl knows na may gf yung guy and they still revel in their infidelity. Breaking the girl code hurts as much.
I just hate cheating girls so much. Like yung nakikipag sex na talaga.

hi! first time writing in this community but i just wanna ask some question and idk if I'm just assuming things or it really does mean something lol
so, i have a long time friend since G7 (we're on 3rd yr college now), that I recently in contact with (recent lang tho mga around feb), well hindi kasi kami talaga madalas mag-usap thru chat but more on personal plus may long term gf siya before so it's a no no talaga. even before, feel ko talaga medyo crush ko siya kaso na-suppressed lang kasi have boundaries since may jowa nga soo ayon we remained friends tapos ayaw ko i-acknowledge iyong feelings plus gusto rin ako ng barkada niya before kaya medyo awkward. tapos nag-break sila noong long term gf during jhs, then idk if he had gfs during shs kasi hindi na talaga kami madalas mag-usap. moving on to college life, since different courses kami, nabalitaan ko na lang na may jowa siya (not sure if we're 1st or 2nd yr that time) so talagang no communication kami altho sabi niya friends pa rin naman kami. we have common friends kasi tapos lagi nilang sinasabi sa akin na sobrang tahimik niya raw and such (which is not true naman since madaldal talaga siya sa akin) so lagi kong dine-debunk. tapos one time nakita nilang kaming nag-usap kasi nakita ko lang sila somewhere sa school, sabi nila, "ang daldal naman pala ni *****," kinilig ako slight kasi nothing has changed kahit sobrang tagal namin walang comm lol (break na sila ng jowa niya here during college tho tapos naglalasing pa siya kaya pinagalitan ko one time, nagsumbong kasi sa akin barkada niya. idk why). tapos nainjury (minor only naman) siya one time pumunta pa sa akin para magpalinis ng wound kahit gabi na, hay.
then eto na nga, last feb nag-start siya magparamdam like nagugulat ako biglang nagrereply sa mga stories ko (unusual kasi never niya ginawa eon, ever since naging mutuals kami, even sa mga notes). he even asked for my sched, had our late night talks, asked me to join concert, lend his sweatshirt etc., which overwhelms me lol. he even attempted na pumunta here sa house kaso pinigilan ko since nagulat ako talaga and then nagn-note siya ng something like i don't see you as friend ganon
pero hahaha plot twist: 2nd day noong first comm namin noong feb sinabi niyang crush niya iyong friend ko sa isang section, so sabi ko shoot your shot kahit nasaktan ako slight hahaha kaya i'm confused ngayon nahihiya rin kasi ako mag-ask at baka oa lang ako
after that, never niya na nabanggit iyong crush niya na iyon tapos single pa rin siya at nagrereply pa rin sa mga stories at notes q so wdyt guys, umaasa po ba ako sa wala bc I'm just assuming things??
thanks! xoxo

I dont think my age will be necessary for this post but i just wanna tell a story and vent a little. For context, I play volleyball almost everyday and wala naman problema naglalaro kami sa court happy happy. One day lumapit samin yung Former Officer ng HOA (President I think), Sinasabi samin na wag daw kami maglaro sa court dahil baka matamaan yung ilaw. Mind you, Sobrang taas nung ilaw nayon like if you measure it siuro 4 - 5 na adult na pinagpatong na tao ang sukat. 1 day a week yon lagi kami pinagsasabihan and tinatry kami paalisin kahit naglalaro lg naman kami ng maayos and paranb naghahari harian sya kahit hindi naman sya officer this year nakakainis lg na feeling nya may karapatan sya na pag bawalan kami. And our fear came to reality, yung friend ko na girl tawagin natin na Mia, so Mia is maalam naman sya maglaro pero hindi to the extend na kaya nya kontrolin ung power ng receive nya and nalaman q nalg na natamaan yung ilaw (Natamaan pero hindi naman sya nahulog, nagagamit parin) And nung nalaman nung former officer nayon last 3 weeks i think pinipilit kami na wag kaming maglaro dahil baka makatama nanaman ng ibang ilaw even though hindi naman kami ang nakatama and yung friend ko naman na hindi namin masyado nakakalaro. Tangina I know medyo may mali din ako sa part namen pero yung parang ayaw kami palaruin nung gagong yon sa court? Hindi naman sya ang may ari. Hindi naman ako magagalit kung may iba pang lugar na pwede namin paglaruan eh, eh kaso wala. Yung school gymnasium samin wala namang naglalaro tas yung isang subdivision 1km away (10 sa jeep pamasahe eh) and wala naman kaming pera masyado since bakasyon din. Hindi ko na alam gagawin ko. Any tips? Any advice? Please let me know what i can do. (yung court ata nayon is sponsored ng mayor ata or the monthly dues pero sabi ng friend q sponsored dw ng mayor)

For context, I’m dating my girlfriend for almost a year now. When we were just starting, we agreed na i-disclose everything about our pasts - mga naging ex, body count, fling, etc. I was honest naman sa side ko and sinabi lahat ng sexual experiences ko. Sa part niya naman, nagkwento rin. She made me believe na yun na lahat yun. Part ng kwento niya ay yung naka one night stand niyang classmate sa college, na workmate niya ngayon. I asked her before if naging sila ba or something, pero she assured me na one night lang talaga yun and di na nasundan. I asked sino nakakaalam, silang 2 lang daw at ako ngayon.
Bothered ako for the longest time at may kutob talaga ako na it was more than that. Why? Nakita ko pic niya nung college, 4 girls and 1 guy. So nag ask ako kung sino yung guy. Took her a while to answer. May mga pics din akong nakita na magkasama sila and the dates don’t make sense based sa kwento niya na they stopped talking na daw. Later on, inamin niya rin na yun yung guy na naka-one night stand niya after ko siyang awayin on that day (2 months of dating pa lang kami nun).
Then recently, hindi ko alam. I was at the church pero may parang bumulong lang sa akin to check again yung information na yun. Weird nga kasi ang random talaga. So when we were having dinner na, I asked her if naging honest ba siya sa buong relationship namin. She said oo naman. I asked again. Multiple times. Same answer. I even assured her na if there’s something to confess, now is the time kasi I’m giving her free pass. All I wanted was her honesty. I even specified na about sa one night stand din yung tinatanong ko.
Then I said, “okay. Since sure ka na dyan, go to your messenger, open your best friend’s convo, and type . Them boom! Many messages pointing na nagkasomething sila ng guy. She said stop na daw - invasion of privacy na. Then I asked her last time to message her best friend this - “BFF! Naalala mo ba yung one night stand namin ni ?”. Nagreply si BFF niya na “ahh oo. Nakwento mo nga. Pero di ko masyado maalala. Ano meron?”
Confirmed! Tama ang kutob ko. Then ayun na yung kwinento niya lahat na they had sex more than once. They were on and off. Magulong usapan. Etc. She was just afraid daw na baka di ko siya matanggap kasi it was a messy story. Guy was a douche and she just tolerated it.
Idk. I’m so down right now. I felt betrayed for the longest time. Di ko alam kung kaya ko pa ba siyang pagkatiwalaan. Di ko nga rin alam if valid na mafeel ko to ngayon given na di pa naman niya ako kilala when they interacted. I could accept her kung sinabi niya lahat sa una pa lang. Ang ikinagagalit ko ay yung how convincing she was when she was telling me na it was just one night stand. Kasi I totally believerd her. Nagagalit ako kasi for almost a year hindi man lang niya inamin sa akin. Hindi ba siya na guilty?
Ngayon, workmates sila pero my girlfriend is leaving na next month for another job. Di ko alam kung anong gagawin. Makikipagbreak na ba? Pagkakatiwalaan kaya ulit? Di ko talaga alam.
Give me some words of wisdom please?

This happened last December and ngayon ko lang isheshare. So ang nangyari is we sent a code change sa production system that caused an issue. I did the code change and it was tested by func and passed the UAT long before maschedule siya to be imported sa production environment. A day after ma prod, nanotice ni business na may maling behaviour yung program. Take note that natest yun ni business at functional sa quality system and inapprove. To cut the story short, nung sumabog sa prod, sakin sinisisi yung issue kahit sinundan ko lang yung kung ano yung nasabi saking requirement and scenario. Yes, sumabog siya dahil sa unconsidered scenario na di nila naisama sa test consideration, pero wala din naman sigurong developer na gustong sumabog yung changes niya sa prod.
Hindi ko naman sinisisi si functional pero nung nag-uusap na sila ng DL, parang pinopoint-out na ako lahat may kasalanan that time(bagong lipat lang ako sa project noon and may pagka-introvert ako so wala pa ako kakilala and kakampi). Yung changes ko is based lang naman sa testing scenarios na binigay sakin and yung inapply kong code is just to add and enhance yung existing functionality nung program. They have time to test din naman since nadeliver ko yung request agad. Sobrang sama ng loob ko until now. I am thinking of resigning na ulit since returnee lang ako dito. I am looking for challenges since di gaya ng ibang company, itong ACN is magagamit talaga utak mo. Pero ngayon, parang hindi na safe kasi nagtuturuan nalang.
I know marami din tayong functional dito pero wag po sana kayo magagalit sakin. I’m just saying na magkakakampi tayo and sana if nagkaissue, ipagtanggol niyo din kami kahit konti lang.

For my ate's and kuya's here. What are the red flags I should be aware of when I apply sa isang TECH company?
For reference: (F) 22, I took a Bachelor of Science in Computer Engineering waiting na lang sa graduation this coming July. I'm currently in a a job hunt kasi sabi ng mga elders mas maganda ng prepared I know for some people too early since hindi ko pa hawak deploma (credentials) ko although some companies may not require asap. while others would prefer na right after graduation (1-2 months) mag laan ng panahon to apply. Btw, yes may experience na po ako with interview, mag send ng resume, emails and inquiries.
I don't know which way ang mag wo-work sakin. If you'd ask me ano bang gusto kong I-pursue? Tbh, gusto ko talaga maganda agad ang mapasukan ko na company. I know I can't control that part.
Nung nag ojt ako they gave me a tasked to create a project (for their own use) (exploitation much) haha anw, the project includes creating an online database and I did 60-70% of the Job. Why did I mention that? Kasi feeling ko kaya ko naman pero alam n'yo po parang marami akong kayang gawin pero hindi ako expert. Like: I can make a pubmat, I can do film, I can act, I can write stories, tell stories, speak in front of people, paint, dance, edit videos and photo manipulations and so much more. I also love to play guitar, acoustic and electric.
I have too much to think about but knowing me? I don't think working for somebody would work. The ick feeling kapag may nag uutos sakin na alam kong lampas na sa responsibilities ko. I wish I wasn't this aware.
Sometimes I wish I can work without feeling anything.

Hello! Just wanted to ask for advice. My ex and I were together in high school (we're currently in college), it was a long-term relationship. We broke up because he emotionally cheated. It was actually him who initiated the break up since I was already too insecure back then. It has been 4 years since we have broken up. We had our closure 2 years after the break up and we have been "friends" since then. We had our closure at a time when we were both starting to meet someone new but it somehow failed - or so we thought. The girl he was trying to meet suddenly hit him up again since he have not sent her a message for a few days na. Tapos long story short, they were together. We barely kept contact naman unless necessary and met during batch hangouts lang. Ngayon, they have already broken up and we hung out with our other friends rin. It was different i guess in a way since masyado ata akong kinilig (?) sa chats namin a few days before the actual lakad. Tried really hard to remain "noncholant" when we met in person pero yung dynamics namin is to tease each other so I failed rin. I was shocked as to how comfortable he was, like the amount of skinship was beyond my exoectation (all wholesome ha). Talked to my friend after that ganap rin tas she said na halos the whole time kami magkatabj ng ex ko. I think he's really just comfortable, thinking na I am over it rin. Unfortunately, di rin ako very sure.
I know that we work together better as friends, I think. Pero there's just this feeling of having that person you like being so near yet so far. Maybe we're just really comfortable and know each other well kaya our conversations arw great, unlike the other guys I have met and his ex for him (he said it himself that they couldnt hold deep conversations). A friend of ours also asked whether we were each other's first or puppy love hahahaha. Ik it may sound cribge, but he was definitely my first (I dodnt the amswer the question then) pero he replied na puppy love langg. Probably explains how he was able to shake off all "feelings" we had before.
Should I just go out and seriously meet other people? It honestly scares me since it has been so long na and he still has this effect on me. Sana naman hindi na ganitoo pag mas tumanda na kami.

Hello! Just wanted to ask for advice. My ex and I were together in high school (we're currently in college), it was a long-term relationship. We broke up because he emotionally cheated. It was actually him who initiated the break up since I was already too insecure back then. It has been 4 years since we have broken up. We had our closure 2 years after the break up and we have been "friends" since then. We had our closure at a time when we were both starting to meet someone new but it somehow failed - or so we thought. The girl he was trying to meet suddenly hit him up again since he have not sent her a message for a few days na. Tapos long story short, they were together. We barely kept contact naman unless necessary and met during batch hangouts lang. Ngayon, they have already broken up and we hung out with our other friends rin. It was different i guess in a way since masyado ata akong kinilig (?) sa chats namin a few days before the actual lakad. Tried really hard to remain "noncholant" when we met in person pero yung dynamics namin is to tease each other so I failed rin. I was shocked as to how comfortable he was, like the amount of skinship was beyond my exoectation (all wholesome ha). Talked to my friend after that ganap rin tas she said na halos the whole time kami magkatabj ng ex ko. I think he's really just comfortable, thinking na I am over it rin. Unfortunately, di rin ako very sure.
I know that we work together better as friends, I think. Pero there's just this feeling of having that person you like being so near yet so far. Maybe we're just really comfortable and know each other well kaya our conversations arw great, unlike the other guys I have met and his ex for him (he said it himself that they couldnt hold deep conversations). A friend of ours also asked whether we were each other's first or puppy love hahahaha. Ik it may sound cribge, but he was definitely my first (I dodnt the amswer the question then) pero he replied na puppy love langg. Probably explains how he was able to shake off all "feelings" we had before.
Should I just go out and seriously meet other people? It honestly scares me since it has been so long na and he still has this effect on me. Sana naman hindi na ganitoo pag mas tumanda na kami.

Ako kasi most of the time, thinking ko, I can easily adjust to those people around me. Not until one day I realized the respect is no longer serve me. I can tell you na kaya ko makipagbiruan in a way na ayoko makaoffend ng tao. But really, may mga tao pla talaga sguro na they don't know what they're doing unless pagsabihan mo sila or ireport mo sila. Or maybe they are just bullshit? Maybe they grew up in unhealthy environment? Idk, pero here's my story:
Im working in a Casino industry, mostly girls magkakasama sa break room, so eto na nga bago lang ako, and I already knew who is fake and who is not, my gut's telling me bakit. 😂 Merong grupo, tatlo sila, una syempre getting to know, and I can tell na they want to go deep into my personal stuffs red flag. Pero nagsshare pa rin ako, because as from me I also want people to learn from my mistakes. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 'Hmm' So ako wla akong pake, pero galawan pala nila is chismis dito chismis don. Okay lang maybe their life is not interesting like other people they used to tell stories. Mahusay sila ah, they think they're righteous. So to cut the story short, may mga pagkakataon na they are lowkey judging me, making fun of me as if joke lang yun para sa kanila knowing na maraming tao nakakarinig. At yung last na nakapagpatrigger sakin is, yung part na bigla silang sabay sabay tumawa and they said something about my ponytail teasing me na Im like a rooster kasi it is placed on the bottom of my head so ako natahimik, tpos yung isa sinabi sakin, ako hindi ako perfect pero Im not gonna do that kind of pony, I was like UH'? I don't have the energy pra sakyan yung jokes nila kasi uwian na non so pagod ako. Then the next thing I realize nagchat ako sa gc namin saying na tngna nyo ang saya nyo ah. Tpos nagreply pa sila coz they think Im just being kalog that timee but nah, hindi ko na ngustuhan reply nila, also sila pa galit 'funnyXD'. I reported them to our supervisor, guess what meron na palang ganong issue before that is why nag resign yung former employee nila. #PART1 muna to

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So mera bestfriend hai jisne iss saal 12th kari uski 2 saal se ek bandi hai to pehle mai undono ke baare me thoda intro de du-----
Mera dost thoda shy sa nature ka hai par ladka ekdum sanskari hai padhai me bhi acha hai jee mains me 97percentile ayi uski gen category me....uski gf to bhai ekdum bawal hai dikhne me bhi aur vese bhi jee mains me 99.xx percentile ayi uski again ye bhi gen hai..bhai ko ye ladki 5 saal se pasand thi aur 3 baar reject bhi ho gaya tha ladki ne finally ha bola 11th ki shuru me
uske baad se mene jo apne dost me changes dekhe...log kehte ki jee prep me relationship me nahi padna chahiye par jo uske marks improve hue..uski bandi use padha bhi dia karti thi ..dono din me aadha ghanta nikalkar roz baat cheet kar lia karte the..ab baat ye hai mera dost kaafi emotional hai aur vo literally uss type ka hai like HE WORSHIPS THE GROUND SHE WALKS ON aur usne mujhe bataya bhi tha dono ke beech me kaafi passionate kiss bhi hogyi thi new year me jiski vajah se bhai ka pyaar aur deep ho gaya
ab ye baat hai 27 may 2024 ki...mere dost ki gf use bulati hai kuch imp baat krne ko..vo jab aata hai to use keh deti hai ki use breakup karna hai aur use ye kaafi time se karna tha par kia nahi kyuki use pata tha ki mere dost ki padhai affect hogi..usne ye tak kaha ki use vo kabhi vese pasand hi nahi aya vo uss time uska breakup hua va tha isliye uss ladki ne mere dost ko as a coping mechanism accept karlia..uske baad mere dost ne usse bahut baat karne ki koshish kari par usne suni nahi
phir aaj jee advanced ka result aya to institute ki taraf se choti si party hui usme mai bhi gaya hua tha mera dost aur uski ex bhi dikhe vaha...uski ex kisi aur ladke se kaafi close ho rakhi thi//muje ye thodi playgirl type lagti// ye dekhkar mera dost ekdum vaha se bahar chala gaya aur rone lag gaya...mene use iss haalat me kabhi ni dekha..usko lag raha hai ye sab uski galti hai
what should i do in this situation to help my friend..uska 7 saalo ka pyaar hai first love

So mera bestfriend hai jisne iss saal 12th kari uski 2 saal se ek bandi hai to pehle mai undono ke baare me thoda intro de du-----
Mera dost thoda shy sa nature ka hai par ladka ekdum sanskari hai padhai me bhi acha hai jee mains me 97percentile ayi uski gen category me....uski gf to bhai ekdum bawal hai dikhne me bhi aur vese bhi jee mains me 99.xx percentile ayi uski again ye bhi gen hai..bhai ko ye ladki 5 saal se pasand thi aur 3 baar reject bhi ho gaya tha ladki ne finally ha bola 11th ki shuru me
uske baad se mene jo apne dost me changes dekhe...log kehte ki jee prep me relationship me nahi padna chahiye par jo uske marks improve hue..uski bandi use padha bhi dia karti thi ..dono din me aadha ghanta nikalkar roz baat cheet kar lia karte the..ab baat ye hai mera dost kaafi emotional hai aur vo literally uss type ka hai like HE WORSHIPS THE GROUND SHE WALKS ON aur usne mujhe bataya bhi tha dono ke beech me kaafi passionate kiss bhi hogyi thi new year me jiski vajah se bhai ka pyaar aur deep ho gaya
ab ye baat hai 27 may 2024 ki...mere dost ki gf use bulati hai kuch imp baat krne ko..vo jab aata hai to use keh deti hai ki use breakup karna hai aur use ye kaafi time se karna tha par kia nahi kyuki use pata tha ki mere dost ki padhai affect hogi..usne ye tak kaha ki use vo kabhi vese pasand hi nahi aya vo uss time uska breakup hua va tha isliye uss ladki ne mere dost ko as a coping mechanism accept karlia..uske baad mere dost ne usse bahut baat karne ki koshish kari par usne suni nahi
phir aaj jee advanced ka result aya to institute ki taraf se choti si party hui usme mai bhi gaya hua tha mera dost aur uski ex bhi dikhe vaha...uski ex kisi aur ladke se kaafi close ho rakhi thi//muje ye thodi playgirl type lagti// ye dekhkar mera dost ekdum vaha se bahar chala gaya aur rone lag gaya...mene use iss haalat me kabhi ni dekha..usko lag raha hai ye sab uski galti hai
what should i do in this situation to help my friend..uska 7 saalo ka pyaar hai first love

Hindi ko lang talaga thing yung pinag uusapan namin sarili ko lalo na kapag in person, it's not i fear judgement pero i just prefer being private person. But somehow my friends thinks na hindi ko sila pinagkakatiwalaan but that's not the case kasi i rather listen about their stories than talk about myself.

Short Story.
I live somewhere in Metro Manila for a decade now. I decided to visit my province since it is fiesta and to visit my grandparents. Timing din na alumni homecoming pala.
So plaza kami at after 1 decade tsaka ko na lang ulit nakita mga ka-batch ko ng elementary at high school. Karamihan sa kanila may asawa’t anak na and yung iba mga high blood na at they are not heavy drinkers like me.
Then there’s a guy na lumapit sa table namin and said “umuwi ka pala? May inumin Pa kayo?” Yes meron pa since San mig apple lang iniinom nung iba and san mig light and wala nag iinom ng hard. Everyone knows this guy syempre taga brgy. lang naman namin and ex sya ng high school friend ko. Sabi nya SA AKIN bigyan nya daw ako pambili alak.
When he went back to our table I wasn’t there kasi nakita din ako ng isang tropa na kuya-kuya ko and inalok ako to dance with him. Not to mention halos karamihan Hindi alam na uuwi ako at para saan na mag announce ako e Di naman ako importanteng tao sa brgy. namin. 😂
Then sabi nya sakin “binigay ko na kay ***** kunin mo na lang”. I said thank you and bumalik na sa table namin and binigay naman nung kabatch ko sakin. After a minute bumalik sa table namin yung nagbigay ng pera and 1k pala binigay nya. Sabi nya sakin “ok na ba yun?” So umiral kapilyahan ko and sabi ko kulang pa 200 without a doubt binigyan nya ako 200. 😂 (scammers ang peg) 😂😂
Ang daming foods na hindi nakain at alak na hindi nainom. So ako tamang lakad at pag May nakakakita sakin tanong na umuwi ka pala? Db ikaw anak ni ****? Tamang ngiti lang and answers all questions. So nang scam na naman ako sabi ko sa bawal table “may alak pa kayo?” Oo naman sila and most of them RH iniinom so hiningi ko isang bote and ayon naka 1 case ako pahingi-hingi and inuwi ko. HAHAHAHAHA!
Since hindi nag iinom ng malala mga kabatch ko yung pera na nabigay sakin pambili alak edi nasubi ko din Di naman sila nag iinom e.
Kinaumagahan itong kabatch kong bida-bida nag message ng “outing tayo guys May pondo tayong 1200 kay (sakin) every time she sent messages naka mention ako and kukunin daw nya di Pa nakuntento nag PM Pa nga. Syempre tanghali na ako nagising bangenge si ante e.
Tadtad ako ng message asking where am I, what time nya kukunin pera. Like what the hell sakin binigay and hindi naman kayo nag iinom. Gawa-gawa ka kwento para talagang di ko masubi pera like for me ok lang naman kasi Kaya ko kitain yun Basta mag enjoy sila and I told them na I’m not joining since May outing din kami ng family ko.
Nakakairita lang na tadtadtarin mo ako ng message para lang sa 1200 at parang di ka makutulog. 😂😂 Binigay ko sa isa kong kabatch yung pera at Hindi sa kanya. Hindi rin pala sya nakasama sa outing.
After 3 months syempre andito na ako sa Manila. Nag message ulit sya sakin and to my surprise tinatanong ako kung ano daw nangyari dun sa mga foods na dinala nung alumni. Like WTF! alak lang inuwi ko at hiningi ko Pa sa kung kanikaninong table yun na gulat na umuwi ako. 🫠😂

Sorry if this is a long post! I tried to squeeze in every detail para fair also. I really just need to get it off my chest. Please be kind to her as well kasi she's a really great person and doesn't deserve hate.
My ex (26F) and I (23F) have been together for almost 3 years and we broke up a month ago, reason for our break up is our circumstance. Hindi pa sya out sa family nya pero she's capable na kasi to live on her own if ever man hindi sya maaccept. Stable na kasi sya in all aspects. While on the other hand, na out ako sa family ko kasi they discovered our relationship dahil sa nag snitch sa amin. I was born and raised on a Christian family so pinaghiwalay nila kami nung na discover nila about us (this was one year ago).
We still secretly dated and still together even after ma discover ng family ko yung relationship namin. I fought for her still kahit patago bcs of how much I love her and she did the same. She was someone who loved me so much, and would do everything for me before. It was unconditional love na nag ooverflow din with the people around me kasi my friends can also see yung efforts nya for me and how much she loved me.
For the past 2 years of being together still she did everything for me, she loved me genuinely, wrote me songs, travelled almost every week just to see me for hours, wala syang pagkukulang sakin kahit LDR kami hanggang sa dumating sa point na parang sobrang nasanay nalang ako na ginagawa nya all those things for me na di ko namamalayan na to-took for granted ko na.
I thought I was doing my best at that time to love her with everything that I'm capable of as of the moment. My parents are very strict also to the point na every time I'm out with my friends or someone I need to take photos for proof lol. (They are over protective bcs I'm the bunso and baby pa tingin nila sakin lol) I've already talked to them about this, na adult na ako. Don't get me wrong, I grew up in a household na hindi toxic, lumaki ako with love and no trauma naman at all kaya hindi ko rin sila fully masisisi bakit hindi nila kami matanggap bcs of their beliefs. Madali lang sana iwanan kung puro trauma natanggap ko all my life but no, I know I was loved and cherished by them too and I'm so grateful for that.
My ex already wants to settle down with me, marry me and everything but I wasn't ready. Feeling ko I still have a lot to explore with myself, career, and in all aspects. Although sya na rin talaga nakikita ko sa future ko, I wasn't ready for it yet and sya ready na kasi stable na sya with everything. Until we had the talk na parang sino mas pipiliin ko, family ko or sya? I never thought that day would come na ganung choices na need kong piliin. Umaasa pa rin kasi ako na maybe someday we'll get both, na matatanggap pa rin kami no matter what. I really don't know how to answer kasi I love her so much but I love my family too. My fam also made it clear to me na they'll parang cut me off if ever sya piliin ko. Until parang na over na yung conversation na yun and di nalang muna namin pinagusapan.
Fast forward, a month ago. We had a talk again wherein we broke up na mutually bcs we said we need to work on ourselves first. We said that it's not a goodbye but more on see you later. We loved each other so much that we had to let each other go. 2 weeks after the break up I was just feeling fine, hurt but getting through and she's not. Her friends are telling me kung gaano na sya hindi nakakakain and puro inom nalang because of what happened to us. We were still talking from time to time during those 2 weeks just asking how's each other and all. (Even saying our I love you's still lol)
Until such time na parang in one snap everything just changed. Naging friends sya sa mga lesbians also na mga 30s na, then I discovered na she was talking to a girl na bigla. Doon nag sync in sakin lahat na break na kami, wala na sya sakin. For 2 weeks I was doing fine, then nung nalaman ko yun parang nabasag yung mundo ko. (There was no cheating involved, she didn't know the girl until 2 weeks after we broke up, I know this bcs we're all in one company lol)
I can't eat or sleep at all so I decided to travel sa kanila to ask kasi hindi ko talaga matanggap yung thought na parang sobrang bilis nya akong palitan. Then when I asked her, she said sorry, gusto nalang din daw talaga nya mag move forward sa life nya, yung na realize nya daw over the past 2 weeks ayaw nya na daw maging malungkot, ayaw nya na daw bumalik sa dati nung sirang sira sya (She became alcoholic at that time nung first relationship nya). Feeling ko avoidant kasi sya with the things that are happening.
She apologized kung mabilis pero sa past few days daw na nag ttalk sila she saw potential daw sa girl (34F), she saw what she's willing to offer daw na hindi ko kaya maibigay sa kanya. Although getting to know stage palang naman daw sila, but she also admitted na may nangyari na sa kanila. I was shattered, bcs I did my best to fight for us. Hindi ko maisip kung rebound nya lang ba to fill the void or talagang totoo na she really saw potential sa girl. I told her baka love bombing lang yun and all but she said no. Even her friends suddenly saw how quickly she changed, she turned into this ice cold queen na parang hindi na sya yun and it felt like I'm the one to blame kasi the pain that I've cause her made her change.
Even after all this happened, I still insisted to stay at her place for a week. I just really want to understand and parang sa sobrang sakit kinailangan ko to atleast gain myself back para pagbalik ko sa amin medyo clear na ako bcs I wasn't really functioning well. During my stay there, I witnessed how her and the new girl are talking, literally like same as we were staring before. (Sobrang brutal diba and martyr ko for insisting on staying there kahit alam kong masasaktan lang din ako lol). I really can't understand pa rin how it's possible or sobrang avoidant nya lang ba talaga to feel the pain of our break up or talagang naka move on na sya talaga. Sobrang sakit pero narealize ko na 2 years syang nagtitiis sa pain na nabibigay ko sa kanya ng di ko namamalayan so parang na jjustify ko pa sa head ko na deserve nya to be happy also? Also weird bcs during those times I was staying there we were still kissing from time to time.... I told her to tell the girl na nandun ako and that we're doing some stuff too but she said she can't kasi mawawala daw yung girl?? Sobrang different nya bigla from the person that I love before kasi alam kong hindi talaga sya capable of lying and all, which leads me again to the pain na she's feeling kaya she's doing these things? Sabi nya naman sasabihin nya rin daw eventually hahanap lang daw sya ng timing.. Parang sobrang bigla kaming naging toxic nung dulo just bcs of our break up.
I know how messed up it was na nung ending but our love was really beautiful, witness all the people around us and it just pains me to see how it ended. Even after our last day together we still agreed na parking lang kami, explore lang kami things and who knows once we're both ready we'll end up together pa rin. Now, I'm still in so much pain from the break up and she seems like she's doing fine na, hindi ko pa rin matanggap na parang sya okay tapos ako hindi pa rin haha. Hindi ko alam kung ako ba yung nag hheal ng tama kasi naffeel ko yung pain and sobrang avoidant nya na di pa rin nya niddeal pain ng break up namin or baka sadyang naka move on nalang talaga sya.
Ahhhhh I know how brutal and how bad this sounds sa kanya just because of this story but I swear she's really a great person. I think yung too much pain talaga nagpa cause sa kanya to do stuff na she's not doing before :/ It's so complicated and I just really want to get through.. and I'm so mindblowned by the fact that after everything that happened I still want her back in my life.

Bhai tum logo ko mana marks inflation hota hai congrats. But sadly humare neet walo ke paas kuch actual substance hai uspe sawal uthane ke. Tumhari hi group mein agar unity nahi toh hume mat koso. Bacho ne padhai ki padhai toh achi baat hai. Phir kyu hore itne saare omr calculated vs actual marks ke error? Kyu kafi bacho ke result nahi huye download? Tum sab apni ego mein dusro ka bura chahte and phir rote ho ki humara kyu kuch nahi hora. And neetards tumko agar lagta hai is saal inflation normal hai so pls apko jo college mil raha niklo udhar and agar nahi mil raha toh leave neet but baaki ke paas puchne ka hak hai ki when will education system improve and seats reasonable kab badhengi. Tum logo har saal gaali dete ho but action ke time apni hi pant ke ched mein ghus jaate ho.
I am not criticizing all jeetards but woh log joh pura saal NTA ko gaali dete hai and phir kuch nahi karte jab moka mile unke liye hai and same with neetards. 27s1 pe itna bawal nahi hua but abhi bhi uska issue utha sakte ho but koi nahi karega. Alsi ho khud and dusre jo apne future ko save karna chahta hai usko bolte ho, hypocrites.