Train picture made out of symbols on your keyboard!

CustomKeyboards - For customs only!

2016.11.30 14:08 CustomKeyboards - For customs only!

A subreddit where your kustom with BoW can actually reach top post
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2009.02.25 08:00 pallaviwensil r/Spanish: Learn, teach or discuss the 2nd most spoken language by natives

This is the biggest Reddit community dedicated to discussing, teaching, and learning Spanish. Answer or ask questions, share information, stories, and more on themes related to the 2nd most spoken language in the world by native speakers.
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2008.11.17 02:32 FunnyVideos!

A community of people sharing and enjoying funny videos they have found on the internet. Has a video made you snort your coffee out of your nose from laughter recently? Then post it here for others to do the same!
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2024.06.09 14:02 BrianLSComics Seeking Volunteer Editors for Webcomic, "The Wild Blue"

I'm the creator of the webcomic "The Wild Blue" (ThWiBl for short), and I'm looking for some volunteers to help give me feedback on my story content and critique each new episode as I complete them. We would be using a discord server as the main communication hub.
The Wild Blue is a slice-of-life sci-fi comedy/drama following an ensemble cast attending The Cyrian Flight Academy, the top flight school in the galaxy. The cast all experiences their own forms of culture shock from life at the academy, and the way they've lived their lives up to that point is constantly being challenged in wacky and sometimes heartbreaking ways. Later on in the story, hints of corruption at the academy begins to paint a different picture of the formerly idyllic setting of the story, and that further exposes that the world of The Wild Blue may not be as utopian as it may have seemed. The story is commentary on high society, the dangers of blind loyalty to one's family and the worldviews given to you by your upbringing.
The world the story takes place in is sci-fi, but the ground-level setting of the comic is very contemporary to keep things relatable to the audience.
The art style for ThWiBl is primarily made from 3D assets to speed up production time, with characters created in VRoid studio. The characters' facial features are drawn over the models, to maintain a hand drawn feel. This has been a point of contention for some, but I spent 5 years drawing my last webcomic every day and I was pretty burnt out, so I needed to streamline the process this time around.
ThWiBl currently releases differently on different platforms. The story is released in chapters on platforms like Tapas and Webtoon, but on social media like Facebook and Instagram, the chapters are split into smaller episodes, labeled as subchapters, (eg chapter 13.2, chapter 13.3, etc), each made up of 8 slides and a title card. The episodes release every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, but I complete new episodes on Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays.
At the time of writing this, I'm currently working on chapter 62.8, which is the 313th episode, so there would be some catch up required if you're not already familiar with the series. I'm also very far ahead of schedule, so that early access can be given to my Patreon supporters. My goal is to reach the end of the story by chapter 150.
As an editor, I would be looking for story feedback, constructive criticism on the overall plot, character development, pacing, and dialogue, as well as a sounding board for future plotlines. I'll also be looking for detailed feedback on each individual episode, focusing on things like narrative flow, engagement, and any inconsistencies. Despite being silly and wacky on the surface, each character is fully fleshed out with their own perspectives and motivations informed by their childhoods and the traumas that they experienced therein, so someone who likes to look deeper into character motivations beyond what's on the surface would be preferred.
If you join me as an editor, you'll receive credit on my website and The Wild Blue's social media pages, you'll get to read episodes of The Wild Blue before they are released to the public, even before the highest tier Patreon members get them, and you'll get to work closely with me and influence the direction of the story.
You can take a look at the comic for reference here
And just as a content warning for those with reservations: ThWiBl has sparse elements of violence, sexual themes and dialogue, plot lines involving LGBT themes, and anthropomorphic characters, but none of these elements are the focus of the story. If you find any of this offensive, this role may not be for you.
Anyone interested, please send me a DM or an email to [BrianLSComics@gmail.com](mailto:BrianLSComics@gmail.com).
Thanks for your consideration and I look forward to hearing from you!
— Brian LS
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2024.06.09 13:45 Sadweek0 Buckshot roulette board game!

Buckshot roulette board game!
Hello high rollers! Here's my take on the fan made Buckshot roulette board game.
For the game you will need: - 8 live cards - 8 blank cards - 7 load cards - 2 decks of items (12 duplicate cards in each deck) - 12 heart tokens (6 for each player) - 16 item tokens (8 for each player) - The set of DnD dice (for percentage items) (Pt 1)
To make cards I would recommend you to draw them on paper and put into protectors. That way they will be more solid.
You can draw all cards according to the sample: (Pt 2)
Note that item cards are double sided. The face is the item itself while the back is the explanation what that item does: (Pt 3-4)
  • Beer: Discard the top card of the deck
  • Hand saw: Your next shot deals 2 damage instead of 1
  • Handcuffs: Your opponent skips his next turn (you can't use this more than 1 time per turn)
  • Cigarettes: Heal 1❤️ (you can't use this if your opponents ❤️ ≤ your ❤️)
  • Magnifying glass: Take a look at the top card of the deck
  • Inverter: Switch the next round (live to blank/blank to live)
  • Adrenalin: Steal an item from your opponent (use it immediately)
  • Burner phone: Number all cards in the deck than roll the respective dice. Take a look at the card that has a number of the dice result. If the dice result is > the amount of cards in the deck roll again.
  • Expired medicine: Roll: 1-3: heal 2❤️/4-6: take 1 damage (you can't use this if your opponents ❤️ ≤ your ❤️)
(Btw I added some of the fan cards)
  • Matchbox: put the live card at the bottom of the deck (you can't use this if the deck contains 8 cards in it)
  • Bear trap: Deal 1 damage to your opponent for every item he will use in his next turn (you can't use this more than 1 time per turn)
  • Flashlight: look at the cards in the deck than shuffle it.
After you made all cards it's for the game itself.
  1. Lay out all components as shown in the picture: (Pt 5)
(You can use any amount of items in the game you want)
  1. Before every load each player rolls d10 3 times. Players put their item tokens on the items depends on the rolls result. (If you roll 0 just roll again) For example: Player 1 rolled 2, 5, 7 and put item tokens on Hand saw, Magnifying glass and adrenalin. (Pt 6)
If you out of the item tokens you don't get items.
  1. Shuffle the load deck than draw 1 card from it. The shotgun will have the amount of rounds shown at the top of the load card. (Pt 7)
  2. Shuffle the shotgun deck.
  3. Choose who will go first by rolling the dice or playing rock, paper, scissors.
  4. Start the first turn.
At the each turn you can use unlimited amount of items. At the end of the turn you are forced to shoot either yourself or the opponent.
To shoot you need to announce who you will shoot. After that open the top card of the shotgun deck and put it into the discard pile face up. (Pt 8)
(If a player didn't announce the person he shoots he automatically shoots himself)
If you shoot yourself with a blank your turn continues, else your turn ends. (If you used handcuffs on your opponent your turn will continue no matter what)
IMPORTANT RULE! At the first turn of every load the player can use only 1 item. After that players can use unlimited amount of items.
You take turns shooting.
After the shotgun deck runs out of cards repeat steps 2-4. Instead of step 5 the order of the players will continue. For example: The last round in the chamber was blank and the player 1 shot himself. This means that in the next load he will go first.
The game ends after a player runs out of health. That player loses and the other wins.
That's all folks :)
Have a good game!
  • Kira
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2024.06.09 13:45 randompigeon2022 Can’t seem to wrap my head around the way this game was designed (DD2)

Look, I've put in my time with RPGs, from the hardcore sandbox survival of Kenshi and Outward to the classics like Baldur's Gate and Elder Scrolls. I'm no stranger to grinding for loot or min-maxing my character builds. Believe it or not, I had never heard of this series and am a complete stranger to Japanese games (western themed or otherwise), so I dove into Dragon's Dogma 2 blind, figuring it'd be another cool game to add to my list. And don't get me wrong, there's a lot to like here – the combat is like nothing I’ve ever seen in another medieval-fantasy RPG, the monsters are straight out of a fever dream, and the whole "gotta pack your lunch for the journey" mechanics are kinda neat.
But then... the world started to feel small. Like, really small. You've got this massive map, but half of it's just water you can't cross, (don’t even get me started on the brine mechanic) and the rest is basically a series of winding paths. You try to wander off the beaten path, BAM, cliff face or unscalable mountain. It's like the whole world is just a theme park with invisible walls. And the landmarks? Tiny. Forests you could clear with a weed whacker, canyons that barely qualify as ditches. It makes the whole place feel claustrophobic, like a diorama instead of a living, breathing world. It's like exploring a model train set, except the only thing to do is walk along the tracks.
And the monsters? They're everywhere, all the time, no matter what you do. You clear out a den of goblins, head back to town for a quick task, and on the way back it's like they've instantly respawned, ready for round two. Seriously, do these things reproduce asexually or something? It makes zero sense, and it breaks any kind of immersion. You're telling me nobody in the capital notices the cyclops doing jumping jacks outside the city gates?
Then there's the camping thing. Look, I get it, resources are scarce, we need to be prepared. But why do I need both a campfire and a camping kit to get make a camp? Just let me pitch my tent wherever I want with a camping kit, or force me to seek out a preexisting campsite, not both.
And the gear restrictions? Come on. I'm a warrior, not a fashion model. Why can't I wear a pair of leather pants if I want to? And why can't my archer pawn carry a dagger for close encounters? It's like the game devs are playing dress-up doll with my characters. Let me customize my playstyle, within reason.
Don't even get me started on the lack of multiplayer. This game is begging for co-op, and it's just... not there.
So yeah, I'm frustrated. I want to love this game, I really do. But these design choices are making it hard. Maybe I'm just not seeing the bigger picture, maybe there's some hidden genius I haven't uncovered yet. But right now, it feels like a missed opportunity.
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2024.06.09 13:38 Academic-Painter1999 Always been a relatively fast typist, but have a few questions!

Hello typing! I just joined this sub today.
I recently built my first ever keyboard (although I still have yet to finish the lubing + modding stage as the rest of the stuff I need haven't arrived yet), and doing so many tests on monkeytype recently to test both performance and sound has kind of reinvigorated a sense of wanting to improve my typing skills further. I used to type at an average of 100+ WPM (fastest was 120 @ 100% accuracy for about 5 minutes) back when I was 12 and my fastest now in my early 20s is 144 WPM under the same parameters, with an average of 120-130 WPM when typing 1k words at 95-97% acc.
I've never really trained for it aside from playing Typer Shark when I was way younger and my access to games was limited, but I still do see it as a useful skill. However, I do have a few questions.
Firstly, is there any real advantage for me to type even faster than I do now? Or would I just be improving for the "hobby" side of it? I'm still studying in college so I have no idea if fast typing would give me any real advantage when job hunting. Is it something that would be good to put on a resume, especially if the job would most likely involve typing up a lot of working papers?
Secondly, I noticed that the way I type might be a huge reason as to why I might not be able to type any faster. Being an avid gamer that has relatively large hands, I pretty much learned to type by letting the left hand take up the most space. I toggle caps lock every time I capitalize anything since I never liked the feeling of anchoring my pinky/ring finger to Shift even if just for one key (unless it's for symbols), and I deal with any keys on the right half of the alphas with pretty much just my right index finger.
I rarely use any other finger on my right hand, as I exclusively use my ring finger for backspace and enter, while my index does everything else. Occasionally my middle finger gets used, but not in a consistent manner.
So, would it be worth it to train away that particular habit on my right hand? Trying out the 10-finger touch typing layout feels uncomfortable because of how it feels like my fingers can tangle up with each other, and I obviously make more mistakes.
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2024.06.09 13:20 guiltyofnothing “You are what is wrong with society. Again, it is advisable that you the seek the psychiatric help that you require.” /r/bingingwithbabish boils over a new paywall and a creator’s apology

The Context:

Andrew Rea is a cook, YouTuber, and author better known as Babish, famous for his cooking series Binging with Babish.
Recently, it was announced that Babish will be introducing a paywall for some new content. In addition, old websites with previously-free content were shuttered.
Babish has also come under fire for his sponsorships, with particular criticism over his promotion of the video game Hogwarts Legacy, considering the recent controversial statements from the series’ author JK Rowling.
Our drama starts as Babish himself takes to the sub to issue an apology for the rollout of the changes, attempting to justify and lay out the reasoning behind them.
While many are receptive to his explanation and find it sincere, others are not so ready to accept…

The Drama:

One user defends the criticism:
TL;DR: you're getting a lot of criticsm for your shitty business decisions, so you're playing the mental health card to turn down the heat.
Look, I'm sorry you're going through a rough patch, and I'm sorry you've gone through the things you have. But forgive me if I find it hard to shed a tear for you.
You can't expect a huge outpouring of sympathy for your mental health, and then turn around and push Betterhelp and a crypto gambling game. Those are both products that prey on your audience's mental well-being. So we're supposed to care about your mental health but you don't give a fuck about ours? Explain that one to me. As for the paywall, I don't care that much, but it's shitty that you didn't tell people it was going up beforehand.
I’m not emotionally equipped to be a public figure.
Should have thought of that before making your face the logo of your company.
Do you enjoy being an awful person?
His struggles are fairly well documented, personally, well before any of this happened
Just take 12 seconds and consider maybe this was an oversight?
It’s not like he’s fucking Brad Pitt with a team of 87 managers and PR folks. I’m sure he’s got a manager, but do you really think he’s got the same pull as an a-list actor to catch every small failure?
He’s a fucking YouTuber - a great one, in my opinion, but a YouTuber nonetheless. Humans make mistakes when they don’t have 36 people checking every ounce of their work.
Give him a little grace and maybe give everyone in your life a little. It’s not all a conspiracy, sometimes people just fuck up.
Do you enjoy not reading my comment? Yes, his mental health struggles are well documented. That's why I acknowledged them.
I'm not talking about the paywall. I'm talking about how he wants everyone to care about his mental health, but has said absolutely nothing in regards to the shitty predatory sponsors. And I'm not talking about his shitty "sorry you feel that way" post on YouTube and taking the video down. He can't just say "sorry, mental health" while ignoring the harm he's helped cause by not being selective about who he takes money from.
Oh fuck off you miserable nerd, if you don’t like how he makes money, you don’t have to participate or consume the content.
If you’re going to keep being salty about this despite an apology and a way to access the old websites then I suggest you look inward.
Read my comment again, I'm not angry about the paywall.
Sure.
Read my fucking comment again, asswipe.
[Continued:]
Did you change it?
If not, I'll pass on reading your angry rantings again. Theu weren't worth the first read through.
No, I didn't. Because I already said it's not about the paywall, dipshit.
Theu weren't worth the first read through.
Still worth it enough for you to respond and be an asshole though, I guess.
Edit: get blocked, douche.
Paywall paywall paywall.
You are obsessed.
I feel so sorry for you content creator dick riders lol
[…]
You’re acting like he owes you something. He doesn’t. We live in a different world now where companies are just faceless businesses anymore, and a lot of the things we consume are the product of single people or small teams. As a result, individual proclivities and issues are part of the new normal. If you have an issue with it; unsubscribe.
Yeah, he owes ot to us not hawk predatory sponsors and then expect everyone to give him a hug when he has mental health issues. But fuck me, I guess. Maybe I should make a post about how I've been struggling with depression my entire life so this sub can forgive me for daring to not give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek for it.
live in a different world now where companies are just faceless businesses anymore
It's a real shame he built his company off of his character and used his own face as its logo.
If you have an issue with it; unsubscribe.
Believe me, I will. I guess I thought when he finally apologized for his shitty business practices that he'd actually apologize, instead of ignoring the sponsorship stuff all together. I thought he was better than this.
Others stand to defend Babish:
Great job folks. You bullied this nice dude who has given you hundreds of hours of free labor.
If were being real he saw the post on mildly infuriating and made a whole ass response, which is insecure as fuck .
Also this is a post where hes admitting hes at fault and yall are telling him “no” which is funny as shit.
It’s “insecure as fuck” to address widespread criticism openly and honestly?
one guy saying bad things about you shouldn’t make you wanna write out a giant reddit post defending yourself yeah.
Who needs to be liked THAT much?
Not one guy, it was widespread backlash on multiple subreddits and from like all his fans. It would have been ridiculous not to respond
Criticism over shitty business practices (shilling products designed to prey on the mental wellbeing of your audience and introducing paywalls with no notice) isn't the same as bullying.
I mean grow up. You have no right to his labor. None at all. Notice? What is this, you're upset about his terms of service? Lol.
Babish isn't gonna fuck you, bro.
"I have no point but I have a funny"
[Continued:]
What point could I make that wasn't already addressed in my response to this parasocial weiner?
Babish made some shitty business decisions, people criticized them. That's not bullying. When people complain about McDonald's discontinuing a menue item, you never see people say "stop bullying the CEO :(". So why is it suddenly bullying when criticism is directed at a YouTuber for their shitty business practices? Yes, Andrew is a person. But that doesn't mean he's immune to complaints just because some parasocial crybaby thinks telling a person to do better constitutes "bullying".
Except if you read the comments on some of the posts people absolutely went well beyond criticism of the business decision to personal insults and vitriol that could indeed accurately be described as “bullying”.
Fair enough, but they made a general comment about how this sub bullied him, not just a few shitheels who took it too far.
cool but that wasn't what the person you told to "grow up" was doing, so why don't you stop huffing your own farts for a minute
I didn’t tell anyone anything? What are you talking about?
whoops, thought you were the OP in this thread, not just a random interjection like me. I'm cutting down on caffeine and it is not making me smarter
[…]
he isn't doing it for "free" mate, he's running a for-profit business. yes bullying is wrong, but people complain about businesses all the time.
Free labour, minus his YouTube revenue, sponsorship revenue, merch revenue...
There's wanting to encourage civility, but let's not jerk each other off here.
Or let's. I mean. It's a Saturday night and I'm alone. I'm open to talk.
Grow some balls lol
The knives are out:
Dude you've been up your own ass for years. When you first started blowing up and dragging your videos out - I nicely suggested you stop adding 5 minutes to the beginning of every video showing us how to make bread. I told you having a separate "Bread with Babish" and telling viewers to reference that would be better. You basically said I was stupider than frog excrement and shouldn't think. Like what? Then a few months later Basics with Babish comes out. Go fuck yourself.
Bro has main character syndrome, thinking Babish personally spites him and only him.
In the nicest possible way, touch grass. Maybe even read your comment out loud and you might realise how ridiculous you sound.
You’ve been carrying this grudge for what, eight years? Touch some grass.
"touch grass" is so overused and trite it makes me want to tear off my dick
Another brings up Babish’s Hogwarts Legacy sponsorship:
Can we get an update on promoting the transphobic wizard game, and apparently deleting comments mentioning trans people on the video?
Imagine what a sad life you live if you’re that triggered by a video game. Literally don’t play it. Why do you care if others play it?
Because buying the game is basically saying "This mid wizards game is more important to me than human rights, fuck gay people, fuck trans people, kill em all, i dont give a shit lmao".
Seek help.
You should seek help if you dontate your money to making the lives of others worse intentionally and give 0 fucks about it.
[Continued:]
You are what is wrong with society. Again, it is advisable that you the seek the psychiatric help that you require. (By the way, it’s a great game).
Glad to know im whats wrong with society and not the scumbags who gave money to anti trans charities. Just know while you're playing it that trans people are living worse lives because of you.
The lil smart phone that ur using right now that relies on cobalt, which was mined by little kids like those in the DRC without protective gear so your phone could have a battery. Just know while you’re sitting here being a keyboard warrior that thousands, if not millions, of little kids’ lives are getting worse because of you.
a.) Im not on a phone and do not own a phone.
b.) Theres a difference because you NEED a computer of some sort to function well these days. You do not need the wizard game.
c.) Theres a difference between supporting a company like that where they try to hide it and keep it from the public and openly supporting someone who basically just comes out and says "Yo btw if you buy my game ill use the money to kill trans people, thanks"
[…]
Imagine being privileged enough for someone enjoying/promoting a Harry Potter game to be what gets ur panties in a twist. I get Rowling is a shit show, but be fucking for real 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m sure your phone is a product of child slave labor and I’m sure you buy a lot of shit that promotes even more terrible things. Get off your high horse and stop crying over first world problems.
Im sorry its considered being on a high horse for wishing people didnt support a disgusting fucking transphobic monster thats hurting fuckloads of people. Its not even like other companies where its semi hidden and you have to look for it, she's blatantly and publicly a transphobic scumbag piece of human garbage. If you don't know any better, sure, but when people are buying the game with the specific intent to support transphobia or don't care that they're giving their money to someone who who's publicly transphobic and openly supports bigots and the hurting of people, you're transphobic and probably terrible.
People like you don’t actually help anything. All you do is piss off ordinary people and make them less likely to care about the trans community. You’re just bitter and you feel better about accomplishing nothing when you sling garbage comments at people. Grow up and do something that actually helps the community. Spewing vitriol and calling people transphobic is not helping.
Someone is transphobic Gets called transphobic Surprised Pikachu face
So you want me to stop calling transphobic people transphobic?
Id rather not help at all than actively hurt the community, ruin people's lives, and fund charities that fight to give people less rights. At least I fight for human decency and people's rights and don't donate to this shit.
I’ll rephrase. YOU ARE ACTIVELY HURTING THE COMMUNITY BY MAKING PEOPLE LESS LIKELY TO SUPPORT. Seriously, stop it. You’re not helping, you’re hurting. You’re not the face of the community, you’re just shouting in the comments at people who just want to watch a guys YouTube channel about food.
”He supports JK Rowling.” No he doesn’t. The game is a game. Cry all you want about what she said, the rest of the community has been ignoring her for years.
“She donates against trans acceptance”. Yes, and she would anyway even if the game didn’t get made. She was already rich after the books, it’s a pointless argument based solely on your principles and not on doing any good.
You keep calling people transphobic, but they are not. Buying a video game is not transphobic. You’re delusional and childish. This conversation is over, leave these people alone and spend time figuring your own shit out.
[Continued:]
I dont know in what universe giving more money to be donated to anti LGBT stuff is not transphobic. "Yeah i give money to charities that murder children but i dont support child murder". Sounds insane right? Thats what you're saying. That just because you're giving money to support making trans people's lives worse that you're not transphobic. You're being insane. "She'd support it anyways so who cares!" is the most insane argument i have ever read in my life holy shit. xD
Hopeless and stupid. You may as well go vote for Trump, you’ll fit right in. Honestly at this point I think you’re paid to make the trans community look bad, it makes more sense than whatever other insanity you want to keep blathering. I’m just gonna block you, like every other rational person.
You gave money to the company that made your smart phone and therefor you support child labor since the whole phone, or at least pieces of it, were made from child labor. You’re a disgusting human being….you see how fucking delusional you sound, bro?
One user taps out:
I’m glad you addressed it, but I had to leave. Best of luck to your future endeavors and I hope lessons were learned.
And yet, here you are
This isn’t the airport. You don’t have to announce your departure.
what an original comment, you are so smart and funny and original for having made such a thought provoking post. I hope you print this comment out and frame it so that your children will learn to appreciate what an original thinker their parent is. are you the person who invented "touch grass" as well? big fan of your work
lol I can only imagine how sad your life is that this is how you spend your time
if you think it is sad that I am here on reddit, doing reading and commenting, I have some terrible , alarming news for you.
[Continued:]
lol yea that’s definitely what I meant 😂
One user still has issues, despite the apology:
Any amount of warning that you were planning to paywall the site would have made it a lot more palatable of a change. Doing it without telling people felt shady at best and deceptive at worst.
Yeah, and this is an acknowledgment and an apology. Seems a little cruel to keep dragging him at this point.
I guess it starts with a halfhearted apology. There’s no explanation for why it was sprung without notice.
It’s “yeah whatever guess I should’ve told y’all but here’s some more stuff coming up that you can pay me for”
here's some more stuff coming up that you can pay me for
Ah, so you're one of those people who feels entitled to infinite free content from creators.
It’s weird to me how many people think YouTube content is free. YOU are the product. Free means no monetary exchanges. Do you think Andrew makes no money from YouTube? Do you think YouTube makes no money from you? His videos are not free.
[Continued:]
Wow you are REALLY fucking dumb huh?
No but apparently you are. How does Babish not get paid from YouTube? Is every video he posts “free labor”?
[…]
No I just don’t think this should be portrayed as an apology when it’s really just an advertisement
Maybe he can post again so you can still be mad for some fucking reason
A slapfight breaks out:
I’m sure you have good connections but if you want some fresh eyes on your script, id be down to give some coverage. Why am I being downvoted so heavily? As an aspiring writer myself, I know how hard it is to get feedback on a project. I’m a fan and offering my time and energy. I don’t get what the problem is. lol wtf is this sub? Comments insulting people getting upvotes in a thread about how negative comments have affected someone is wild work. Fuck me for being interested in Andrew as a writer.
Same vibes as the dude who asked Elon to run Tesla who was a nobody
get outta here man lol
Because you’re a nobody lmao
Holy shit, just read through your comments and god damn are you miserable hahah.
meanwhile you're scouring the profiles of people who upset you, looking for mud to sling
Someone calls me a nobody, I gotta go see what mighty status they got in the world to be shitting on others lol.
He literally thinks babish is gonna choose him or something but instead he attacks me 💀
[Continued:]
Looooool you’re gonna play victim??? Aint no fucking way lol. You insult and disrespectfully gatekeep and now you’re the one talking about being attacked hahahahahaha fuck all the way off with that nonsense.

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2024.06.09 13:20 sameed_a how to improve decision-making with systems thinking?

Last week, I was sitting in my sun-drenched patio, sipping on some cold iced tea, when my buddy, George, called. He was on the brink of a meltdown, close to making a hasty decision that could potentially cost him his job. He's the CEO of a mid-sized company and was facing the classic problem: profit was on the decline, competition was increasing, and under pressure from his board, he was considering firing a chunk of his staff to cut costs.
I told him to calm down and asked, "Have you heard of Systems Thinking?" He glanced at me with a puzzled expression, as though I was talking in alien language. I said, "Systems Thinking means, understanding how things influence one another within a whole. In organizations, it helps you see the bigger picture - the whole system at play, rather than just the parts. If you only focus on individual parts, you might solve the short-term problems but may exacerbate the long-term issues."
So, we sat down that afternoon, doodling on my whiteboard, trying to outline the key elements of his problem. We questioned the function of each department, their interconnections, and their influence on the overall company goals. We also looked at external factors: customer behavior, market conditions, competition strategies, etc.
After mapping out this complex web, George realized that firing people was just a band-aid fix - which might indeed lower costs temporarily but would create other issues like loss of talent and potential decrease in product quality. That might further decrease sales, causing even more problems in the long run.
Instead, he discovered potential solutions from within the system - like cross-training his staff to add value in different areas, redistributing some resources, improving internal communication, and focusing more on customer feedback.
George left my patio that day with a weight lifted off his shoulders and a clear view of his company's system at play. And I, sat back and sipped my now lukewarm iced tea, honored to have been able to share the concept of Systems Thinking with a friend in need.
P.S. This story is purely hypothetical, and any resemblance to real-life Georges is coincidental, but it's a simple way to show the practical application of Systems Thinking. It's like a pair of lenses that allow you to see the world differently, making decision-making less about gut reactions and more about understanding the larger picture. And of course, it's always a good excuse to hang out with your friends on a sunny patio while sipping iced tea!
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2024.06.09 13:18 jjkdeaths2023 Yuta's thorny

Yuta's thorny
Don't cook my theory, it's my first time making one also this going to be a long post so hang in there if you're intrested, this theory is going to be cut down in 7 sections
First section" halo" : various characters has been seen drawn with the halo symbol such as rika, gojo, geto/kenjaku and toji
Firstly I'd like to talk about it's meaning, halo has different meaning and symbolisms, it can ve referred to saintly state and godly like characters / person, or it could be referred to enlightmeant and also the splendor or glory with which a famed, revered, or idealized person or thing is invested and i find it oddly that those characters drawn with the halo symbol aren't saints at all, they were all bad in someway, so it's really odd to use this symbol for them, isn't it? That's why i believe that the halo symbolism here doesn't mean them being saints here but it has 2 meaning 1. Enlightenment or reaching that state of enlightment and invested glory which makes sense bs all those characters has reached this state, gojo with the honored one moment, Kenjaku /geto being glorified and worshiped so he was put in the state of a god (Buddha) with this and therefore enlightment, toji who reached enlightment by abandoning his ce to elevate to higher state and rika reaching enlightment by becoming cursed by yuta to become the queen of curses however for rika it's abit different and I'll get into that
Second section "death" :after explaining the meaning of the halo and it's connection to the characters, now we will talk about their fate...... Each and every character that has been drawn with the halo symbolism died and they were possessed, gojo rn with yuta taking his body, geto got taken by kenjaku, shibuya toji got possessed by that granny ct and rika by being cursed, they all died and got their body taken whether by ct or souls or bodies or simply being cursed, and they all died after reaching said enlightment state.
Third section "rika" notice how all those halo symbols are always made of light while rika's only a flower? Rika has a flower crowned halo, flower crowns are aften symbolizes, love, fertility and purity that was used on weddings, and we know that the relationship between yuta and rika are the representation of love and purity , so rika reached enlightment /glory by her love for yuta that made her elevate to this state of glory ( becoming a cursed by yuta's curse out of love ) and is connected to yuta by a ring which also has the same symbolism and so is the halo of her being a ring as well , unlike gojo for example.
Fourth section "rika and blood and gojo " in ch 180 the chapters first page was of rika with blood under here with a halo flower crown and yuta and her curse form being the dolls, under rika you can see that there are blood, we know she died and the blood means her death but it also has another meaning or shall i say a foreshadowing, only rika and gojo were represented as flowers and both of them were drawn with blood in them, gojo's flower being upside down full of blood and rika with a flower crown with blood under her, both have died and both possessed and rn both are linked together as we know rn both are linked together by yuta ( by his relationship with rika and her being a curse and gojo by yuta taking his body) and in the same picture she's holding both yuta and her curse form as dolls which represents as of rn both of them are going to die /lifeless which we have seen with yuta's original body last chapter and rika in curse form holding him.
Fifth section "sukuna, death and yuta " and yeah i know that in the manga it already says that theres a probability for yuta to die after 5 minutes however it also has another probability of him being stuck in gojo body and neither options are by sukuna's hands hence why this is a theory ..... as I've mentioned before about characters and reaching enlightment, there's another character that hasn't been drawn with the halo symbol even tho he also represents enlightenment by being Buddha and all, the real buddah in this story unlike gojo's enlightment which was self-proclaimed which means it's kind of a fake Buddha in comparison to sukuna, the real one, which is why you see gojo died, killed by sukuna, the real honored one killing the fake, highlight this bs we will talk about it, as i said sukuna (the real honored one) killed gojo (the fake honored one) once and now yuta is in gojo's body which represents 2 types of fake, 1. Gojo being the fake honored one and yuta taking his body 2. Yuta taking gojo's body therefore made him reach this fake enlightment by being in gojo's body and controlling it and we have seen the fake honored state of gojo has been killed by sukuna and i believe so will yuta
Sixth section " yuta's death part1 " as I've talked about the fake honored one / Buddha and it's connection to yuta and sukuna might kill him, now we will talk about the foreshadowing for it, in ch 31 chapter page was sukuna mocking and holding a skull with stitches on its forehead, now yes it could be just a drawing but i believe it's referring to yuta in his current state in gojo's body that has stitches on his forehead due to Kenjaku's ct and gege telling us yuta will be killed by sukuna.
Seventh section "yuta's death part 2 the after) : so we talked about the halo and rika and it's connection to yuta and gojo and their result in death and that sukuna is going to kill him, now what happens after killing yuta on the hands of sukuna? I sukuna will eat him, i mean the dude eats everything, Tengen, corpses, hana's shoulder etc lmao so i don't see why won't he won't eat yuta to at least get some of his healthy stats back or just for the enjoyment of it all. It's just a speculation and desire to see on the screen, it would be shocking and gory and well he's in gojo's body so double the pain and i can see gege doing it.
So tell me what do you guys think about this theory?
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2024.06.09 13:16 Acrobatic-Teach6219 OMGGGG

THIS NOAH GUY IS OMFFFF
HEAR ME OUT OKAY?
from asking for me since before I knew him down to right now, he gives me this feeling in my stomach that resembles the one I felt before. it's stronger? is it because I know he's had how eye on me and waited? GAHH IDK BUT THATS JS SO MMMH.
background: Noah is a cuban puertorriqueño, in the army and was there for as long as my friend that joined. they'd become friends and this Noah guy had openly admitted he wanted something serious and described his type. my friend saw me as a good fit and wanted to set us up but basic training got in the way and they moved to different states in the process. while my friend was sent to Texas, Noah was sent to Colorado and they would constantly talk about me and things about me. they were both able to come back to our state, noah being the one to go back and forth whereas my friend remained in texas. he had become obsessed. the thought alone sounds scary.
once I graduated, I was able to join my college snap story thing and had been scrolling through stories. I had caught on to one story in particular and screen shotted it because I thought it was cool. it was a guy and his friend on their bikes on campus. I had gotten a follow request from him and accepted it bc it said it was from our college group. he snapped me shortly after, revealing himself in his uniform and dear god....anyways, we started talking and in the first week he told me a lot of gossip. we are both in the psychological field and he'd a lot to say regarding a few therapists on campus. conveniently we stumbles across a certain parent, to which I got a lot of information from Noah. he later puzzled together the pieces that I was the one that a certain therapist talked about often along with his son. we joked about it and talked it through as to what had happened between me and the therapist's son, I had nothing to hide if I wanted to actually try and putting myself out there. Noah was understanding and we left it behind.
he admitted he never expected me to be talking to him much less out of convenience that I stumbled across him on accident.
he admitted he had gotten my snap from my friend before along with my Instagram and my name just in case he wanted to stalk. that's what he said was provided from my friend. I thought it was funny tbh. lowkey thought it was cute that he was afraid I wouldn't follow back, he was worried that I wouldn't like him so he stopped himself.
up to now, everything has been well and he makes me feel warm. it's a nice feeling that I second guessed many times before. tonight as I learned more about the therapist's kid...it makes me pity him a bit but what can I say? he's making himself look like a fool. he has no clue there's people laughing at him. I'd say it's horrible but not if he's been shitting on my name. hey, by all means, he can lie and say I fucked him up when on reality he's reflecting what he did to me and making himself the victim.
finding this out was so funny, especially after my bike and picnic date with Noah. I feel like I'm winning while he's begging for the slightest attention. it's upsetting. after all of that tea time with my dear child, I went ahead and unmuted my mic. I was on the phone with Noah so he could fall asleep while I got the receipts. it wasn't long after he woke up and asked for me to come over. I declined because his roommate was there and I didn't want to risk waking them up. he ensured that he heard them leave for work so I left as soon as I could. once I got there, I felt at ease. I wasn't being flirted with, peer pressured, put in a weird position...he made me feel comfortable. he started playing Cory Kenshin clips and we ended up cuddling. his scent is the same as my candle. he smells so good. I stood with him for over an hour. his big hands combing through my hair????
💳💥💳💥💳💥💳
I felt safe, I felt calm. I didn't want to get in trouble so I came home after the whole thing BUT...AND LISTEN. he didn't wanna let me go but he knew my dad would say something. we got to his bathroom and he told me to come near him. he bent his knees to make sure I was able to reach him. he took a picture of me kissing his cheek. DAWG IM WHIPPED. he giggled and omfg his voice is filled with his thick ass accent. the most attractive giggle I've heard. after that, I actually went home and I've been up since then. it's been an hour. we made a Spotify Playlist but mf doesn't use Spotify, so I used my account. we added songs we listened to throughout the night. he has me whipped.
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2024.06.09 13:15 NLSSMC 34yo everyday look - Not enough foundation?

34yo everyday look - Not enough foundation?
I’m 34 years old and have never done Botox or anything. (If that matters. I just wanted to mention it just in case.)
I tried out a new light, everyday look. I’ve gotten feedback here before that I don’t need as much foundation and concealer as I think but now I’m wondering if this is too little and makes my skin look uneven?
I’ve included a picture of my face without makeup. My skin looks really oily but that’s just because I had just applied all the “potions and lotions” and was waiting for them to absorb before applying makeup. 😅
I usually use very red lipstick so this is a demure shade for me. 😂
(And seriously, how do you all take such lovely pictures of your makeup? It’s so hard to take a photo that’s both flattering AND shows off the makeup? I’m so impressed!)
Any other comments or feedback is greatly appreciated! 🌸💐
I used to be fairly good at makeup, or at least I wore it everyday 😅 but I’ve been studying and working from home for the last few years and I’m out of practice.

Also, if someone is on the fence about trying products from Victoria Beckham, I can really recommend them. Pricey but I’ve been very impressed with them and while this doesn’t affect the quality, all the packaging is really well-made, “heavy”/sturdy and feels luxurious and enjoyable to use 😂
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Products used:
  • BB-cream: Klairs - Illuminating Supple Blemish Cream (only comes in one shade)
  • Concealer: MAC - Studio Finish SPF35 Concealer in NC15
  • Setting powder: Laura Mercier - Translucent Loose Setting Powder in Translucent levels 1-2
  • Blush: Make the Make - Capric Face Palette in Peach
  • Mascara: Victoria Beckham - Vast Lash Mascara
  • Eyeshadow: Victoria Beckham - Smokey Eye Brick in Signature
  • Eyeliner: Victoria Beckham - Satin Kajal Eyeliner in black
  • Lipstick: Chanel Rouge Coco in 444 Gabrielle
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2024.06.09 13:09 we3lsc For YOU Pretend-A-Jenny-Hurl

I’ve been working on this since last night when I was notified by a few AMAZING Reddit’ers, they were letting me know about someone CLAIMING to be “Jenny-Hurl”, immediately I went to the thread where this PERSON was doing quite a bit of replying, while I was reading everything she was typing, I was also reading ALL the JAIL text messages between Paul and Jenny, as well as phone calls, I wanted to thoroughly compare the 3 for similarities or differences, and it was VERY CLEAR by looking at the grammar, punctuations used, everything that was said in Reddit absolutely did NOT match, there was NOTHING similar in any way, shape or form, I knew that whoever this sick, twisted person was, it definitely wasn’t Jenny-Hurl. We were all asking for a picture showing yesterday’s date, got everything BUT that, and each one was different, and they’re ALL here in Reddit, all over the internet, readily available for ANYONE to save to their phone, to try and pass off as REAL, she got called out, every photo she posted, I debunked, that’s why the person DELETED every comment in the thread, but luckily when replying to mine it sent me email notifications each time, and shows what the person wrote in the reply each time, I don’t have access to the others members this person replied to in the thread, but you should be able to hopefully somewhat figure out what the “person’s” deleted replies to the others were.
In the folder I created to attach to this because of photo upload limit you’ll see some pictures aren’t even of the same person, some found the fountain of youth, or is like the character Benjamin Button and ages backwards..
Here’s a write up message I made for this PERSON, whoever they are..
u/EdieCiaobabyy <~~~ supposedly Jenny
WHOEVER YOU ARE, you mentioned in ONE of your MANY DELETED(because I compared the way you were talking and typing to the way Jenny talks and typed, and they did NOT match) comments last night, that the calls between You and Paul were being ALTERED and so the “REAL TRUTH”(about you?) wasn’t made public, PUHHHLEASE, seriously,that’s the BEST you(whoever YOU are) could come up with?
IF you are Jenny, which I DOUBT you are, (definitely not a baby girl, some may use that term referring to the PSYCHOPATH, but I WILL NOT), it is WELL KNOWN by the WORLD that Zav altered the calls because she gave control of HER YouTube channel to a PSYCHOPATH(yes I said it), and someone else got the UN-ALTERED calls and released them, ALL of them, so I just DEBUNKED the ALTERED calls theory for you, whoever you are..
The JIG IS UP, and I’ve DEBUNKED YOU.
AND if you(whoever you are) THINK that YOU can create an account 5/31/2024 and STALK a couple posts, and then decide to claim you’re Jenny(you referred to yourself as something you’re NOT, I WON’T), and say WOE IS ME, WOE IS ME, BLAH BLAH BLAH, TRYING to play VICTIM, and I wasn’t then, and still don’t now, give a RATS behind about YOU or your life, TIMOTHY FERGUSON, THE ONLY VICTIM was only a 15 year old defenseless, helpless, INNOCENT BOY, and the ONLY VICTIM.
So let me say this, as I want YOU to know, whoever you are, and IF by SOME SMALL CHANCE that you are who you say you are(DOUBT IT), I don’t know WHAT your AGENDA here in Reddit is, BUT you’ve come to the WRONG Subreddit to try and play victim, because it WILL NOT WORK, you are not, and have NEVER been a victim since YOU decided to call Paul(whoever you are) and make a COMPLETE FOOL of yourself for MONTHS, and ONLY YOU are to blame for that, and at this point, in my opinion, WHO you REALLY are is irrelevant, and ALL I have to say to you is THIS: YOU(whoever you are) are one of the most SICK, DISGUSTING, EVIL, TWISTED, PILL POPPING, EGOTISTICAL PSYCHOPATHS I have ever had the displeasure of listening to in those calls, YOU took away the fact that TIMOTHY FERGUSON was the TRUE VICTIM, and PLAYED VICTIM to get EVERYONE to pay attention to YOU, TMZ SKANK. YOU ARE NOT THE VICTIM IN THIS, TIMOTHY FERGUSON IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE THE ONLY VICTIM IN THIS CASE.
And then for you IF you really are Jenny, to have the AUDACITY to come here on Reddit and hoping that IF you out yourself that everyone that loves Timothy, that ALL will be HUNKY DOREY, I can’t speak for others here in Reddit, and some will probably say how harsh and mean I was for this comment, but I can CLEARLY SEE that AGAIN, YOU ARE TRYING TO PLAY VICTIM STILL, and as God as my witness and the LOVE I have for Sweet Timothy that tragically had his life taken away from him at the very young AGE of 15, I will NOT let the fact that TIMOTHY IS THE ONLY VICTIM be taken away from Reddit by the likes of a disgusting troll like YOU, like it was RIPPED from him on YouTube.

TimothyFerguson

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2024.06.09 13:07 Efficient_Fudge3010 i(19f) think my sister(20f)'s married best friend(22m) is in love with her

my sister, em (fake name), talks about her best friend, let's call him matt, a lot. i never thought much of it given the fact that they do really understand each otheare close in a way that i think is really great in a friendship and em was also in a pretty long term relationship up until about 2 weeks ago. PLUS matt is married and very clearly cares about his wife endlessly so i didn't see anything necessarily romantic there.. until this weekend.
for a little context i live in a different state than my sister so i didn't meet matt in person until this weekend at em & matt's graduation. matt got married to his wife, becca, a little over 6 months ago (i think), but they've been together about 3 years. becca was at his & em's show (theater school so they had performances/shows and graduation this weekend) so i met matt & becca there. they were both super sweet so, again, i didn't think much of it as it was a pretty quick meeting before we had to head out.
graduation was early the next day and i didn't notice anything too crazy at the ceremony. there was one moment when they were taking pictures together (just matt & em) and it was very... touchy, but again i think physical touch is a really nice thing to have in fully platonic relationships so, yet again, i didn't think much.
me, em, becca, and matt decided to go get lunch. we had a pretty good conversation flow, very comfortable energy, making jokes, being normal young adult stupid. it was chill, but, as much as i adore becca as a person, she seemed to be a little disapproving of a lot of matt's "quirks". and when i say quirks i just mean stuff like forgetting little things or singing the same song on repeat around the house (the smallest things yknow) and just reading it i realize it could come off as normal relationship banter, but it did feel a little strange in the moment (and you'll understand fully why i wanted to mention the "banter" in a second).
at this point i was realizing how connected matt & em really were. potential romantic interest aside, they really mean a lot to each other and you can absolutely see it.
while the 4 of us were walking to matt's car, my shoe came untied so i jokingly told em to fix it and she responded with something about only ever untying them (kinda an inside joke with friends, but she just unties everyone's shoes when they're not looking lol). i tied my shoe and me and matt ended up walking a little ahead of becca and em. matt immediately starts talking about how em always does it to him and how she did it when they went to the park (he was chasing her around and shit. idk). and AGAIN, whatever, it's none of my business how you categorize your feelings/relationships and i have no place to tell you what your standards and wants should be in a friendship... so whatever.
but the interaction wasn't what peaked my curiosity. it was the way he was talking. and the fact that every time the conversation naturally shifted he would change the subject back to em.
he cares so deeply for his wife. really cares. but i have never felt so much fondness in someone's voice, i have never seen so much light in someone's eyes, i have NEVER seen ANYONE speak with so much adoration for someone the way i did when matt spoke about my sister.
me and em went for ice cream alone a little later and she told me some things.
i'm not gonna say much about it because A) i don't know much anyways and B) it's not my place to say or try to connect dots, but she told me there are some pretty concerning relationship conflicts between becca & matt and matt is (from what i can tell) already questioning whether marriage was a smart decision.
hearing that i didn't immediately go "oh well ig i was right and he actually might be in love with you". i was more so realizing the little "quirks" becca seemed to not be a fan of were actually things they were seriously arguing about behind closed doors.
the reason i bring that up is because every time they fight it (from what i can tell) ends with matt being a "problem" and he fully caters to his wife, which, i can understand to an extent because she is disabled and has some mental struggles as well so there's a lot of fear on his part, but it's not an great situation regardless. i also bring it up because my sister said there was one instance where he had been down because of an argument/arguments and he told em "i've had more fun with you tonight than i've had with my wife in weeks"
he's also said stuff along the lines of "i love you so much i think it's unhealthy". and there was an occasion where em played matt & another mutual friend (calling him franklin) some songs she'd written. matt was like embarrassingly stunned and said he wanted to listen to her play (piano) forever and listen to her (not surprising tbh i've heard my sisters songs and she's wildly talented). franklin made a comment about how em "broke matt" and it kinda seems right because he brought up wanting to hear more of her songs completely unprompted (unless i wasn't paying attention lmao) today/yesterday
now i mentioned earlier em just recently left a long term relationship. she broke up with him, it wasn't messy or anything, they were just on very different paths in life, and she didn't feel very connected to him. em said she didn't really notice how "touchy" she and matt were until after the breakup. well, she did, but she thought "we're both in relationships so obviously nothings gonna happen".
after the break up she started to realize the closeness. said there been multiple instances where they're inches from each others face and just staring. definitely could be innocent, right? well yes! but also not when you can't stop looking at my sisters lips, bucko.
and then today happened. or yesterday, i guess.
they had their final show after graduation(it was amazing), everyone's crying through goodbyes, and the 4 of us (matt, becca, em, and i) plus franklin decided to hang out to stall the goodbyes.
there were a lot of moments that were very "holy shit whoever said soulmates aren't real never met you guys"
there were a lot of "fuck why am i happy just watching two idiots high-five"
and there was absolutely zero moments where i felt like matt would do any less than go to the ends of the earth for em and enjoy doing it
in fact matt quite literally said he would drive the entire way back to our hometown just to make sure em still talks to him
friendly kinda thing? sure! but not when you're laying with your heads together and while everyone staring at stars in the sky you are LOOKING AT EMS LIPS and ur WIFE is on the other side of her head.
i honestly don't think he knows he's in love with my sister. or at least he definitely wouldn't admit it until it's not considered fucked up. but i know.
and i really want to stress that i know people have different standards for what they want/need in romantic vs platonic relationships, but i can say with 100% certainty that matt is perfectly, undoubtedly, wholly, and unconditionally, in love with my sister. intentions aside.
i am a little scared for what happens when em moves in with matt (& becca) starting later this summeearly fall. as i said i don't think either of them would purposely do anything that could hurt becca, but i know "heat of the moment" impulses and i really hope it doesn't go that way.
she's not a homewrecker. he's not a cheater. i'm not worried about a full on side chick situation. but trying to diminish feelings is only gonna make them bubble over in a way that might have a not so fun aftermath.
god, they're both so perfect for each other and annoyingly good people. they deserve something good.
bec & matt will probably be visiting em (and me i guess) in our hometown at some point before then so maybe ill update this if i feel the need to say more then.
i'm not "rooting" for them to get together necessarily, but i really hope this doesn't get messy because whether it's platonic, romantic, anything in between, or anything beyond, they are the most supportive and gratifying pair of friends. they seriously deserve each other.
in whatever way life lets them love the other. i'm sure they will.
i'm not allowed to talk to anyone about this so i decided to go to reddit (as any normal chronically online kid does) and im realizing after typing this that there is a potential my sisters friend finds this
so
hey man. if you're reading this please know i understand i have no place categorizing your feelings (i know i already said it but i really can't tell you how to feel) but i can see how much my sister means to you. and no matter what you decide you feel, my sister just wants you to be happy. and i don't mean she'll "suffer in silence" and she'll always wish you'd have given her a chance, i mean she genuinely doesn't care whether you're friends or dating or scene partners or work spouses. she just wants to be around. she will love you in every way she can.
TLDR; my sisters friend is in love with her. maybe it'll never become romantic, but god i hope whatever happens they always have each other.
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2024.06.09 13:06 PlasmicSteve 10 Bad Typography Habits that Scream Amateur (Medium article)

https://meetchopz.medium.com/10-bad-typography-habits-that-scream-amateur-8bac07f9c041
A short, helpful article with visuals. Not written by me.
If your website is filled with center-aligned text, understand that it's generally a bad practice to do that in most cases and project descriptions are one of those cases. There's a reason the author of the article made it his #1 bad typography habit.
Center-aligned text is generally wrong because it's harder to read, as the reader's eye has to find a new starting point for each line. Because of this, it's considered to be a bad practice, so professional designers trained in typography avoid center-aligning text – except, as someone recently pointed out here on the sub, for some special cases like wedding invitations and wine bottles, as their teacher told them.
If your portfolio descriptions are center-aligned, anyone reviewing it who's trained in typography – which will be most people – is likely to see that as a lack of training in typography or a lack of following any training the designer has had. So if you want a better chance of getting hired for a design role, left-align your project descriptions.
The other two critical issues I see violated on portfolios submitted for review here on this sub are Line Length and Justification.
The maximum recommended line length, and this is not just for portfolios but for any project you create, print or digital, is 75 characters per line. Once you go beyond that, the viewer struggles to read the full text and will often skim or skip paragraphs completely.
Justification is when each line of text is forced to end at the same point on the right. I don't see many portfolios themselves using justification (probably because it's not a default), I do see it done in many projects, and done poorly.
Justification can work well, but it works best with wider blocks of text, and I often see it used on very narrow text columns in 3- and 4-column layouts on LetteA4 sized pages intended for print. And in addition to justifying wider columns of text, the settings that I see used most often only add space between each word, not each character, which gives amateurish results. Again, likely the default setting being used without question.
There's nothing wrong with having a ragged right block of text (this is the term for an irregular right margin), and in many, probably most instances, it's preferred.
Also, to be clear, there's no such thing as Left Justification and Right Justification. It's Left Aligned, Right Aligned, Center Aligned, and Justified. The terms are often used incorrectly, but Justified means what it's described to mean above.
What I often see is people following the defaults of whichever program or platform they're using and not questioning those defaults, which in my view is a bigger concern than any of the specific issues mentioned above. As designers, we're responsible for every element we put into our work so there's no justification (lame joke) for including elements that weren't given consideration.
Don't include images in your design without thinking about how they might be color adjusted, or cropped, or rotated, or modified in any other way to improve the results in whichever context they're being used.
Don't place a logo on a background that doesn't give good contrast without thinking about how you can modify the logo and/or the background to improve results. Maybe the background needs an overlay to make it slightly darker, or lighter, or less saturated. Maybe the logo should be all white, or all black, or all some other color, or it should get a subtle drop shadow or outer glow. Try different things and see which works best.
And don't just dump text into a program without looking at it objectively and considering how it can be modified to improve results – typeface, leading, tracking, alignment, margins, etc. If you don't know any of those terms, you should be looking them up immediately.
Typography is the core of graphic design – you can create a functional design with only type – and because of this, the use of typography in design is viewed more critically than any other element. Violating commonly accepted rules is an instant red flag to anyone reviewing your work. If you follow best practices, you'll be in better shape to get hired for a design job, to get freelance clients, and to generally be viewed as a professional.
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2024.06.09 13:06 aldh860 Trying again but maybe in a more helpful way this time. I won’t ever use “I” again. Thank you for making me aware. Maybe more peoples will be willing to give it a shot.

First let me give you a taste. Let me prove myself to you. You want to know if I like sugar in my coffee? Yeah, sometimes. Black is good too sometimes. You really can’t do anything wrong when you do the right thing. You will never have another argument again. Miscommunication. Escape from the only true delusions. The ones that NO ONE HAS EVER QUESTIONED. Of course it’s scary. Terrifying. Ever been in love? Ever have to raise your hand in class when everyone makes fun of you? New things are scary. No one but the successful has this lifestyle. We would change this way of things for many generations. Maybe they will never take it back this time. It’s been done before people. Listen to what they say about the hippies. They had the right message. They bought the lie. They sold out. Maybe this could be something. May not. I’m fine either way. Reddit is actively shutting me down and you know what? Ignore the death threats, I laugh, I share will friends if I think it’s worth it. I hurt peoples feelings and they love me for it. I have finally found friends. I finally stopped the abuse to was showing my husband who saw the potential in and gave me the chance become the person he needs. He just needed to wait until I was truly ready to see clearly. I’m sorry I’m not waiting until I think you are ready. That was another lie. You are to make change now. You will have motivation. You’ll not trust the fact that your depression is gone because you have trained it to think it can’t work its way in there. Build this thing for you. It’s YOU. Just like yourself already. Start my finding what you needed as a child and take everything you want from this world. If you can’t say it then yet. Practice. Practice here! I will help anyway I can. It’s time we hold ourselves up. You will notice that there is no nonsense to these words. I’m just showing what it looks to like experience being unapologetically you. Take what you what. Like this.
I will never apologize for this. I have the moral high ground. Always. I am killing you right now that you aren’t me. Yet. You alone hold the key. I don’t care what anyone has to get against it honestly. There is no bad here. I checked. People who tell other people what to do are not good people. They never think for themselves. They struggle to form a single question. You see it. Help them if you want. Enjoy it if you want to. It’s funny. I laugh at the this. You crack me up. I am honestly just trying to learn my you actively help people not want to die. I already saved liked. All the karma I accepted about me I learned to eat. I did the work. You see it. Stop complaining. I am unapologetically childfree because of the way you made it. Goodness cannot grown in these harsh conditions.
This is where I do start using I phrases. I am a white 31F Childhood sex survivor. I have been will to die for the world you created. The religion is Independent Fundamentalist Baptist. The absolute worst of the worst. You deserve every little bit of karma you have coming if you don’t change your ways. I hope they make to crawl. You suck. You are the worst people. I laugh at the idea of hoping you die out. But that would be a disservice to you. Because even you are capable of love. Everyone is kiddo. It’s just unconditional love. Look how easy that was. It’s true. Hold you accountable. I’m water you. I wear all the scares I wear that you gave me proudly. I have described everything that went into them. I thank you for your negativity. It’s my constant reminder I’m right. Cause I know I am. It’s true for me.
Fight it. It’s just a lie we keep telling us kids.
MODs thank you humoring me back. I really appreciate you. You keep everyone safe here. I trust that if I ever get out of line you can just ban me. I have a lot of good to offer this community. You are the guinea pigs. I NEED to get this right. I am stating to you that I have a need. I am putting my foot down. I am ready to cause it great pain. Bring it on. Watch me overcome. I am capable of doing anything and I finally know this. Let me save you a lot of pain.
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2024.06.09 13:06 lemonsaltwater Colin + Pen = Swans: A Deep Dive

Colin + Pen = Swans: A Deep Dive
A joint research effort of u/sc127 and u/lemonsaltwater
Throughout Seasons 2 and 3, swans are a recurring theme in Colin and Pen’s story, both in terms of explicit imagery/sound and allusions to swan behavior and stories. There are so many allusions that it is clear the showrunners, and Julia Quinn,* want us to make these associations, as every detail is intentional.
(\while neither of us have read the books, but based on character names, as well as references to the books on this sub, we can assume this. If you've read the books, please comment with more swan references! We do not present this as something hidden/new but rather for the fun of finding all of the references.)*
The biggest allusion to swans is how swans mate for life and form into bonding pairs quite young, well before mating age. Trumpeter swans bond as young as 20 months — but then wait several years and don’t mate until at least the age of 4-7. Colin and Pen meet at a young age and form a friendship but it then takes several years for it to become romantic.
Let’s plunge our beaks underwater and dive into how these associations play out for Colin and Pen individually and then as a couple.

Colin’s character as a swan

Colin has always been a swan, even if he didn’t lean into it. It shows up in a variety of character traits throughout the seasons.
Male swans are fiercely protective of their partners. We see Colin’s protectiveness over Pen show up multiple times. I did a longer post on the evolution of Colin's protectiveness a few weeks ago, but here are some scene highlights:
  • Ep 1x01: After Penelope beams at how happy she is to be wearing a pink dress, Cressida then spills her drink on her. Colin feels defensive of her, and rejects Cressida's bid to dance (big social no-no!) and dances with Penelope instead
  • Ep 2x07, 2x08 (Cousin Jack’s scam): He not only gets angry at Mondrich for insulting the Featherington family, but also at Cousin Jack for taking advantage of the Featherington women
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  • Season 3 has multiple examples of Colin protecting Pen: after his dating help is revealed, balloon, protecting her from a mistake. It is notable that the few times we see Colin angry, they are all related to Pen’s feelings.
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We'll likely see more of this in Part 2 (and various book spoilers indicate this as well).
Male swans are also one of the few species of waterfowl that take an active role in rearing children. Male swans will sit on the eggs and protect them, unlike other waterfowl. In Seasons 1 and 2, Colin is often seen playing with his younger siblings. We see the male swan’s interest in child rearing most obviously in 2x02 when Eloise recoils from Daphne’s baby and Colin swoops in to tenderly and lovingly hold him.
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Swans are known for mating for life and for being dedicated partners, unlike other species of waterfowl. Colin “My Wife” Bridgerton, hello. But even before Season 3, we see this in Season 2 when Colin is the only one in the front row who appears happy at Anthony and Edwina’s wedding, and according to Luke, Colin is actually crying because he loves love so much. He delights in love.
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Afterwards, Colin finds himself somewhat depressed and “searching for answers at the bottom of his flask” after their “bungled nuptials.” For someone who sees love as "the one thing in life that holds genuine meaning," to see an engagement broken off at that point is deeply distressing. (We'll return to Anthony's wedding later.)
His recurring appearance changes after his extended travels: Swans shed all of their feathers during their annual summer migration period. After his travels between S1 and S2, he returns with facial hair. After his travels between S2 and S3, he returns with new clothing.

Penelope: Duck => Swan

Penelope, meanwhile, needs to go through a transformation in order to become a swan.
(There are a lot of motifs used for Penelope throughout the show: butterflies, cake, etc, but here we’re going to focus on ducks and swans.)
Let’s start with her name. To get all Colin-season-2 for a moment, “Penelope” is believed to derive from the Ancient Greek word penelops, which means “duck.” In modern language, “pen” is the official name for a female swan. And her last name is Featherington.
Something that starts as a duck and becomes a swan… that sounds a lot like the HC Andersen short story The Ugly Duckling, which is about a duck who is cast aside by society for being ugly, only to later learn that the reason it looked different was because it was actually a swan.
While Colin and Pen are more likely to quote Byron than Danish fairy tales, the allusions to The Ugly Duckling are quite strong throughout Penelope’s character arc. (And indeed, fantasy plays a huge role in their worldviews.)
This is directly referenced in the book:
“I thought you believed in me," she said, "that you saw beyond the ugly duckling.”
For a brief refresher on The Ugly Duckling, let’s take Wikipedia’s summary and annotate it:
After a mother duck's eggs hatch, one of the ducklings takes longer to hatch and is bigger and perceived by the other animals as an ugly little creature. It suffers much verbal and physical abuse from its mother and siblings, and has an absent father.
Penelope is the youngest of three children. From the first episode, it is clear that her mother regards her as less desirable and less beautiful than her sisters. Her father is neglectful and largely absent. She is repeatedly subject to unkind comments and treatment by her mother and sisters. To take just one example, when suitors come over to meet Marina, and her mother closes courting hour, she says “Please feel free to bid farewell to Phillipa or Prudence, or even Penelope.” (Colin is the only one to take her up on this.)
Portia also insists that Penelope wear bright yellow dresses even though she herself prefers pink. Yellow is the color of baby ducks. Portia tends towards green, often in iridescent fabrics, which roughly maps to the coloring of several types of adult ducks (even females). (In the Ugly Duckling, the ugly duckling is gray rather than yellow like it’s siblings. However, they’ve taken a bit of artistic license here to reinforce the duck imagery.)
It wanders from the barnyard and lives with wild ducks and geese until hunters slaughter the flocks. It finds a home with an old woman, but her cat and hen tease and taunt him mercilessly, and once again he sets off alone.
We don’t have a direct literal correlation to the cats and hens, but we can interpret “leaving the barnyard” as Penelope being too early presented in society, and the “cats and hens” being the multitude of catty comments and “clucking hens” (judgmental, gossipy mothers) of society.
It’s also interesting how Cousin Jack is presented quite clearly as a hunter in Season 2, and the gun rack on the wall clearly makes Portia uncomfortable. There aren’t direct references to duck hunting, yet that was a common hobby. (We admittedly don’t know anything about rifles and can’t figure out if any of them he displays on the wall are specifically for duck hunting, but would love it if someone knew!) Cousin Jack, of course, nearly destroys their family.
The duckling sees a flock of migrating wild swans. It is delighted and excited but cannot join them because he is too young, ugly, and unable to fly. When winter arrives, a farmer finds and carries the freezing duckling home but he is frightened by the farmer's noisy children and flees the house. The duckling spends a miserable winter alone outdoors, mostly hiding in a cave on the lake that partly freezes over.
We can read this as being when Pen watches Colin leave for Greece, and when she looks at the happy Bridgerton household. She is also too young and immature to fervently declare her feelings as she states one should. Nicola plays her as immature (the little hop when she speaks, high voice), and she is trapped in her mother’s house.
The allusion of the migrating swans is also interesting as one could see all of the Bridgertons as swans who glide gracefully on the surface of society (“pretty Bridgertons”). While not all of the Bridgertons exhibit swan-like behavior, Violet and Edmund do (but more on that below). Note how in 3x02 Penelope says the place she feels the most comfortable is/was the Bridgerton Drawing Room at Sunday tea -- surrounded by the flock of swans.
We could be a bit literal with our interpretation here and say that Colin’s protection of Pen with the Ruby scam is equivalent to the farmer’s care, and then is scared off not by children but his own friends. But I think we can look at it more broadly to say that Penelope goes from thinking she will be cared for — as Colin says during their dance in 2x08 — but then feels cast aside.
She then spends a miserable summer alone, without Eloise or Colin. We know she was miserable by how she is dressed and carries herself in the beginning of 301: hunched over and back in an old gown with her protective helmet of curls.
The duckling, now having fully grown and matured, cannot endure a life of solitude and hardship anymore. It decides to throw himself at a flock of swans, feeling that it is better to be killed by such beautiful birds than to live a life of ugliness.
When we first meet her in 3x01, it is clear she has had an awful, lonely summer. She is shown in her old clothing -- notably more pink but still yellow, a sign of the impending transition -- and looking shy and hunched over.
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But she resolves to fully break free of her family and marry. Her first dress is iridescent emerald green — the color of peacocks, which is likely the most direct motif given she hides behind a peacock in the garden, but it is also the color of adult mallards and several other duck species.
She throws herself into the fray at great personal risk rather than having to continue to live with her family of ducks that reject her. However, she is still awkward and unsure of herself. While she walks down the stairs with confidence, once she's on the floor, she's isn't fully carrying herself with confidence, and sort of slides her feet along the floor in a slouchy manner. She then proceeds to bungle her conversation with the lords who approach her. In other words, she still sees herself as an ugly duckling -- or perhaps ugly duck since she's grown. But Colin is able to see beyond that and has the first glimmers of starting to notice her as something different than everyone else.
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Part 2 speculation:
The Ugly Duckling is shocked when the swans welcome and accept it, only to realize by looking at his reflection in the water that it had been not a duckling but a swan all this time. The flock takes to the air, and it spreads its wings to take flight with the rest of its new family.
Penelope is shocked when Colin has feelings for her, and according to the trailer, is welcomed with open arms by Violet and the rest of the swan’s family (except Eloise, who does not exhibit swan-like behaviors herself, but that's a different topic). Given the focus on mirrors so far this season, perhaps this combined mirrougly duckling/swan theme will reappear. Penelope will then integrate herself into the Bridgerton family and identify more with them, rather than her family of birth. She thus gets both self-acceptance, a husband, a loving family, and freedom all at the same time.
Given the use of mirrors this season, I expect Colin will literally and figuratively help Penelope see herself in the mirror the way he sees her, in a parallel to what Colin says in S2 E2 about her letters:
Your letters were so encouraging. I thought, if Penelope can see me this way, then surely I can too.
A brief note on Penelope's clothing
We can see hints of this in her clothing. Over Season 3 Part 1, Penelope’s clothing changes from Featherington green to Bridgerton blue. Yet in the kiss scene and Colin’s dream, she’s wearing dresses that are such light blue/green that they almost appear to be white, and she doesn't seem to wear these dresses in other scenes. (The dream one is similar to the market scene, but the sleeve detailing is different -- it's much more feathery. Hmmm.) While white dresses can imply wedding, perhaps another thread to pull here is their swan-like whiteness. The moment when they kiss is the first time it occurs to him to see her romantically, and it is also the first time he sees her in a white dress. That she is in white in his dream reinforces the idea that he sees her a swan.
(Yet they aren't fully white — so there is still evolution to happen.)
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Colin calling her Pen — "swan" — from the very beginning
And lastly, back to her nickname. The first time we ever see Colin talk to Penelope is in S1 E1 after Colin visits the Featherington house during courting hour for Marina, he refers to her as Pen. He refers to her again as Pen when they dance later in that episode. The viewer sees her transition from Penelope, a duck, and then becomes Pen, a swan. But Colin has always seen her as a swan, even if he didn’t realize it.
(We have not done a full analysis of the times he calls her Penelope vs the times he calls her Pen, nor of other people using her nickname.)

Audio and visual swan references

So, Colin is always a swan, and Pen transitions from duck to swan. Several times throughout the seasons, we see direct and indirect nods to swans in terms of imagery, dialogue, and other scene elements when Colin and Pen are together.
It’s notable that, as far as we can tell, swans and swan noises largely only show up when Colin and Pen are together. (There is one exception, discussed in the next section.)
The most obvious is in 2x05:
COLIN: After all, everyone else is finding some purpose to their lives. Anthony is to be married. Benedict has his artistic pursuits. And, well, here I am... feeding the ducks. [Looks at a swan as he says this]
PENELOPE: I am sure the ducks are most grateful.
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The implication being, of course, is that Colin does not realize he's not looking at a duck but at a swan. His feelings for her aren't romantic yet. But he is really looking at a swan — Pen. And that she, not the ducks, is grateful for his company and conversation.
Interestingly, quacking is heard in the background. It’s hard to say whether it’s ducks or swans — perhaps it’s intentionally ambiguous.
Singing swans = courting activities? Or a shift in feelings for Colin?
But let’s pull that thread a bit, as swans singing comes up several more times. Swan songs have historically had an association with death, yet “their sounds are more distinguishable during courting rituals and not correlated with death.” We could then interpret hearing swan songs as times that are courting-esque, or perhaps moments when Colin’s perspective on Penelope is starting to shift.
In 2x06, Penelope has a heated conversation with Eloise about Eloise’s feelings about Theo. Eloise asks her if she’s ever felt the torment of feelings for someone, and Penelope says she could only imagine it. She then looks over at Colin and swans are heard in the background.
A few moments later, when Penelope walks over to Colin for the “purpose” conversation, swans are again heard in the background. (Listen very closely as she walks over to him.)
In 3x01, when Colin and Penelope talk in the garden after the presentation, swans are heard in the background as Colin looks at her while she looks away. In this scene, Colin is wearing his beautiful embroidered vest, which features a duck near the collar. It also features a parrot. (Shout out to u/EverEarthling for this amazing deep dive on the vest!) Perhaps when Colin bought this vest in Paris, he still viewed Penelope as a duck, and himself as a parrot (i.e. one who parrots the behaviors of what society expects). Given this, we might not see this vest again, as gorgeous as it is.
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While we might think these were coincidences because they happened to be near water, it seems unlikely, as there are a lot of garden/park/outdoor scenes where no swans are seen or heard.
In 303, at the end of the Willow scene, swans are heard in the background as Penelope leaves. Swans then re-appear the Hawkins Balloon Fair. There is a giant wicker statue of a swan, decked in lilacs and light pink roses, off to the side of the balloon. (Lilacs being the favorite flower of the Bridgertons and light pink being the Bridgerton color of first love.) While we don’t get an obvious camera angle of this, based on body positions, Penelope would have been looking at this swan statue the entire time while talking to Debling.
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Here's Nicola goofing around with said swan statue.
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In 3x04, the Queen has dancing swans in her wig. And, this is the first time in the season when Colin and Penelope dance together.
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We also have a small wink in terms of grass. Swans who have not yet begun mating, even if they are paired, will gather in flocks in fields of grass. Paired swans who are too young to mate will move throughout the flock socially yet still be paired — much like the environment of a ball. In 2x03, Colin mentions how he once spent meditating for hours on a single blade of grass, and in 3x03, when trying to impress Debling and looking directly at a swan, Penelope says how she likes grass.
(Perhaps we can also interpret this to mean that Eloise is not a swan: she says she’d rather watch grass grow than talk to other debutantes. But, again, that’s for another post on Eloise being different than her siblings.)
Interestingly, at these swan social gatherings, “some individuals will have several courtships with other members of the flock, whilst others, tend to stay away from densely populated parts of the herd and do their own thing.” Sounds like Colin and Pen!
From the book, there's a mention of a "swan song:" (credit to u/leadwithlovealways)
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Colin + Pen = Swans

Let’s talk for a moment about the behaviors of bonded swan pairs and their mating behaviors, as there are a lot of parallels.
One important part of the beginning of the swan courting ritual is that both will drop their wings completely to their sides, and not puff themselves up at all. We can see this literally in terms of Colin and Pen in the carriage (both have their arms down at their sides), but also metaphorically: they are both at their most vulnerable, their least puffed-up, in the entire season.
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When swans are bonded, they will press their chests together and bend their necks together and rest their foreheads against one another, forming a heart shape. In their first kiss, we see Colin rest his forehead against Penelope’s ever so slightly — somewhat tentatively, almost, and his chest is not pressed to hers. (It is in his dream, though.). We see the forehead-resting and chests pressed together more times in the carriage scene.
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Mating dances
First, watch this video of swans doing a mating dance. (Or read, if you prefer.) Note how look away from each other and then back with intense eye contact.
They will stare at each other during the up and down motions of the necks and will sometimes raise both heads together at the same time to look at each other with sideways glances as they turn their heads from side to side.
Now, let's pivot back to Bridgerton -- and to another couple. In 2x05, Anthony and Kate’s pivotal dance when they can no longer ignore their feelings for one another resembles the courting dance of swans, with their arms interconnected and circling around another. While one could say that’s true of most dancing, this one is particularly striking, and perhaps it's when Anthony drops his rakishness or ability to think about others and starts to accept his committed, swan nature (though it takes him some time). You can also see echoes of the swan mating dance in how they pass one another side-by-side in Simon & Daphne's dance when they're truly in love, though the Kate/Anthony dance is much clearer.
The closest we’ve seen to Colin and Pen dance like this is 2x08, yet that dance is much more tentative than Kate and Anthony’s, and only bears a very faint resemblance to the swan mating dance. They make eye contact, but it is not intense or focused. Colin also refers to her as "Penelope", not "Pen," during that dance, and they barely touch. Distance is implied in multiple ways. But back to the topic of this post, one has to wonder whether we’ll see Colin and Pen dance in a way similar to a swan mating dance in Part 2.
Swan mating rituals
Now we're going to dive a bit deep in terms of parallels between swans and intimacy. Yes, this is completely fucking unhinged on an already unhinged post. I’m sorry if you will never be able to look at swans the same again.
  • Swans will keep intense eye contact during courting and mating. Yup, check.
  • While mating for most birds lasts only a few seconds, for swans it can be at least 20 minutes if not up to an hour. Seems fitting given the mentions of a 10-minute long intimacy scene in Episode 5!
  • Right before swans engage in the act, the male swan will drape his neck over the female swan’s. We seem to be getting hints of this in the trailer, with Colin standing behind her in the mirror.
  • We're going to skip over specifics of swan sex positions. That would simply be too unhinged.
  • Right after mating, swans stay close together and echo the head turning/tilting of the courting ritual. We get a glimpse of this after the carriage scene is interrupted, and one can hope this means we get lots of after-sex cuddling. If not, it’s totally in headcanon now.
  • After mating, swans will clean one another. We can see this in how Colin lovingly puts Pen’s dress and hair back in place before straightening his own clothes in the carriage scene.
  • Swans also tend to mate many more times than is necessary in order to fertilize eggs. Based on this, and based on what we’ve heard about Part 2, we’re probably going to see this parallel, too.
  • Male swans eagerly build a nest once they’ve decided to mate. This matches what we’ve heard about Colin quickly buying a house for him and Pen.
  • Swan couples that are new to a territory/nest usually don’t lay any eggs for the first year, so maybe they’ll wait a bit before having children. But that seems unlikely with these two given that birth control didn’t exist…

Looking forward

Given that swans mate for life, we can be guaranteed a happy ending here.
As the show goes on, one can predict that swans will represent the two of them in various ways, and that we might expect to see swan motifs in the decoration of their new home. (In the Part 2 trailer, in the wedding scene, the walls are decorated with a swan motif.)
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In terms of children, swans keep their children close to them during their early life. We therefore might be able to predict that both Colin and Pen will likely be very attached to their children, and we will be unlikely to see them without their children once their children are in the picture. Even though Colin loves to travel, we could also predict he’ll quickly want to settle down and delight in being at home with their children, just like a swan.
Since male swans actively participate in child rearing, we also hope we’ll get to see lots of heart-warmingly adorable scenes of Colin bouncing their babies on his knees and taking care of them in future seasons. Maybe we’ll be lucky and even get a Regency-ified version of baby wearing with Colin wearing their baby wrapped around him with a shawl!

Bonus: Press tour Easter eggs!

In the Netflix India Bollywood/Bridgerton video, Luke wore a duck sweater. u/sc127's read on this:
Black Swan theory regarding Nicola's outfit: Do you think it's alluding to Colin and Pen getting married? In the eyes of the Ton, they would consider the Polin relationship as a Black Swan. It fits the criteria of being a surprise, having a major effect, and can be rationalized in hindsight.
Pink Ducks on Luke: I think the symbolism is more straight forward compared to Nicola's outfit. Pink is Pen's favorite color and it is the Bridgerton color of first love. Colin is in love with a duck named Pen :)
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2024.06.09 13:05 Worth-Commission-533 RANT : Rise of griefers and toxic people in pubs

I noticed a huge surge in griefers and toxic people in EUW servers (low divine/high ancient) these past few days. I'm 12k behavior and communication. Is it related to overwatch not working? If i tried to quantify it, i had a griefer in my games (ally or ennemy) once in every 20 games, now it's one every 2 games. By griefers, i mean people that farm role queue tokens but don't play their role, like supports going midas first item (shout out to the pos 5 ogre that went midas and refresher, he fooled us by buying tiara first and queued hex only to buy refresher) or the mid (for some reason, it's always SF players) that rage buyback after his first death or second death if you're lucky and goes on to either feed on purpose of afk farm.
I also noticed that my communication score went up from 10.5k to 12k even though i'm sometimes annoying. VALVE PLEASE FIX
I know that many people in the dota 2 community got used to the toxic behavior in pubs, but it's not something i can tolerate nor should be slept on. Someone insulting my family for no reason (i don't even think there's a valid reason for that) can ruin my mood for the day. Matter of fact, that's the reason I took breaks of several months of the game in the past.
Dota 2 labs option to decline games depending on their quality (skill range and behavior score) changed my dota experience so much and made me enjoy dota soo much. I can't remember when i had this much fun playing the game. You don't have to deal with non english speaking (mostly Russian) people in euw nor Iranian internet café screaming teenager.
Pictures from my last games :)
min 11 midas on my pos 4 AA
My pos 1 Zeus that went auto attack build (manta and shard) 3 days after 7.36b that proceeded to insult my mom after begging him to not get manta and go magical
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2024.06.09 13:01 Dapper-Equivalent-75 The love of my life [F22] destroyed our "relationship" again after giving her a second chance [M22]

First of all, I'm writing this not to seek help, this is the worst love story I lived in my life, but I'm handling it properly. I'm writing this just because I want to share my situation, and maybe someone who is having hard times could see that and learn from my experience. Thanks !
So there is this girl [F22] who was the love of my life, from her behavior she had the same feelings for me, the thing is we had never been together because she wasn't ready (we started talking since oct 2021). The reason for that is that previously (4 years ago) a guy she was attracted to rejected her after he seemed interested in her, and so she still has ego issues with him (basically she still is trying to make him regret playing with her), the thing is that, they are still close, not close as us, but still there is something between them. Last year we broke up several times because of this same problem, at first, I didn't know she had someone, then I started noticing things from her side and she always tried to hide him, she made several mistakes (like telling me she was going to sleep just to talk to him, and more ...) until I decided to cut her definitively from my life (September 2023), I explained to her all the reasons to that, and I talked to her maturely, I didn't insult her, I didn't judge her, I didn't obligate her to cut him off, ... I just decided to cut all contact with her and move on. She wasn't ok with that but she respected my choice and told me that if whenever I want to reconnect with her I will always be welcome, but that this time she won't initiate contact with me... being no contact with her was the hardest decision I made in my life, as I said, she was the love of my life. Still, during this period, I learned so much about myself and my personality, I learned that I was insecure and didn't like myself, and more ..., but I took this chance and worked deeply on myself, I fixed 99% of my insecurities, I understood so many things about life, and I even became stoic. 1 month after no contact, she sent me an email, I didn't want to see her in my life again but I thought that maybe she had some explanations for me, so I responded to her with the idea of giving her a chance to discuss things and move on. Still, she seemed to be more interested, and she did all her best to regain my love for her, after some weeks of trying, I gave her a chance, and we met, I didn't bring up our past, neither did she, we just enjoyed our life as friends, and I was thinking that we are not obligated to be in a relationship, we can just enjoy our moments together, without flirt nor love signs. After that, we began to hang out several times a month, and we started feeling real chemistry between us (never been so close), until one day, she decided to bring up the problem that made me end things with her, and explained to me everything about her relation with the other guy (ego issues and past problems with him that made her anxious), and btw, it was the first time she opened up to me about her relation with him and her feelings towards me, that day was the best day of my life, she told me that I'm the one for her, that she always wanted to be with me in the future but couldn't because there is still this ego thing. I respected her choice, comforted her, and told her that the most important thing now for us is to enjoy our times together, but most importantly be totally honest with each other and always respectful, and I also told her that if one day she decides to go with him, it's up to her, I would respect her decision, but all she has to do is to be honest with me and tell me things, she was agreeing on that point. After this date, we became even closer to each other, her family started talking about me more and more, and everybody around would see the love we had for each other...
1 and a half months (5 days ago) after that beautiful date, we dated in public (for the first time, because she was never comfortable with that), and as always, I gave her princess treatment, and did my best again to make her happy, and she seemed to be happy and in love with me. But yesterday was the day when I marked the end of our story, yesterday in the morning she proposed me to date, I accepted of course and we were about to meet at 5.30 pm after I finished my training session, she called me at 5 pm, I couldn't answer her call, and called but basically she said that she won't be able to come, I called her back at 5.45 pm, told her that I still didn't finish my session but was about to it in a few minutes, I asked her if she could come and see me, she said that she can't. 5min later, when I went out to my car, I saw her car on the other side of the road, I was so happy because I thought that she was preparing a surprise for me when I approached her car, she immediately tried to hide by putting her face down, and guess what, the other guy was with her, in the passenger seat, he saw me and started laughing knowing how embarrassed I was, but what deceived me most is that she always told me that she can't sit in my car nor I could in hers because she wasn't comfortable in public, and I always respected her boundaries..., so I decided to go home, but then wanted to give her a chance and went back just to see what she would say, and she saw me back, the guy left the car and she was about to run, but I blocked her way and asked her calmly to open the window, she was looking at me with an angry face, I asked her that several times, but she didn't want to so I just continued my way back home. While heading home, she sent me a message in which she told me that I had no right to talk to her in that manner (tried to manipulate me), and again, I stayed calm and told her that her manipulations wouldn't work for me, that I had never been so calm in my life and that she won't fool me and reject the fault on me anymore. I told her that she was the biggest deception of all my life, that I would block her and wouldn't talk to her anymore again, but definitely, she knew her mistake but didn't want to recognize her fault, she begged me to stay with her and give her a last chance, she was lying again about her situation with him, about her behavior, and that I'm the only one she loves deeply, I told her that after all the good moments we spent together, she managed to do things that she knew the consequences of, and now she destroyed all our relation, and there would be no way for me to trust her again. I hung up the call and blocked her from everywhere.
That was the story, now in my case, I'm at ease, even though she was the love of my life, I'm not anxious about breaking up with her and losing her definitively, all that because, in the previous no contact, I worked hardly on myself and my mindset, I learned that we can't control everything, and the best things to do are to accept the situation, respect god's decision, and move on. And if you read this and you are or had previously a similar situation, don't ever take it personally, it's true that losing someone we deeply love, because of being lied to/used/cheated on,... is hard and deceiving, but their behavior towards you never represents who you truly are as a person, to give you an example, this girl was always sending me reels about love couple (to show love towards me), I always gave her the princess treatment, I always dressed classy around her, she did too, I always showed her the security she could have with me, and she was also displaying so many signs of love, all her sisters and also her mother always told her that I'm the one for her, and from what she was saying, she was always happy and had butterflies hearing that, we planned so many things for our future, we were always so excited when seeing each other, and time seemed to be flying, and I wasn't the only one putting efforts, she did that too, we became so close and honest to each other, and more... but it was her decision to break things, so I have to take it as it is and move one, and you too need that. Know your real value and never let someone treats you badly, you deserve all the love and happiness, but from real people, not liars and cheaters.
Thanks for reading, and if you need any help I will be there for you <3
TL;DR! - The love of my life broke my trust in her again after giving her a second chance.
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2024.06.09 12:59 IncontinentMind Hitler was an incompetent war leader.

Let's ignore the genocide, that we hopefully all agree is bad.
Hitler seemed to be a reasonable competent peace time leader of Germany with is non genocide based policies.
however as a wartime leader he absolutely shit the bed.
he'd agreed to carve up the east of Europe with the soviets making a mutually beneficial although ideological at odd, NAP.
while at war with other powers across about 1/4 of the world and post surprise prison loving the French, they fucked everything up.
the only reason the British expeditionary force was allowed to escape was because the land forces were given orders to stop so the SS/party member heavy air force could get the credit. bad weather, and the British get all the skilled professional troops out.
so the Brits keep the massive asset of skilled body's to train the new forces and giving the British a MASSIVE moral boost that I personally believe is the main reason the UK didn't white peace out the Germans.
so we fucked that up, what do we do next?
oh I know, let's attack our western neighbours with whom we have significantly better relations than our enemies do. and while we're making bad choices let's just assume we can finish up before it gets cold and not make any contingency for our equipment and troops to function if it does take longer.
declaration of war on the USA was dumb but I can understand it, you've made a formal pact and you're honouring that pact.
IF the Nazis had pushed in and killed as many as needed then captured as many of the BEF as possible. they could have probably used those captured troops to put a functional end to the war. They'd have achieved all of the parties original goals, the "living room" the German people "needed".
they probably could have continued the evils.
if youre some moron who says "hitler did nothing wrong" because you hate Jews, the disabled, gypsy, or gays; you're just wrong. even if for some reason you love eugenics and hate whomever, he did a shitload wrong. he was a useless war leader and surrounded himself with glory hungry incompetent leaders who exemplified the "good players don't always make good coaches" trope.
im tired of dealing with the "Hitler did nothing wrong" lot. the moral argument dosnt work so im layout out how much he fucked up that wasn't moral but strategically.
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2024.06.09 12:42 Alliejam1 ACIM WORKBOOK LESSON 161

LESSON 161. Give me your blessing, holy Son of God.
Today we practice differently, and take a stand against our anger, that our fears may disappear and offer room to love. Here is salvation in the simple words in which we practice with today’s idea. Here is the answer to temptation which can never fail to welcome in the Christ where fear and anger had prevailed before. Here is Atonement made complete, the world passed safely by and Heaven now restored. Here is the answer of the Voice for God. Complete abstraction is the natural condition of the mind. But part of it is now unnatural. It does not look on everything as one. It sees instead but fragments of the whole, for only thus could it invent the partial world you see. The purpose of all seeing is to show you what you wish to see. All hearing but brings to your mind the sounds it wants to hear.
Thus were specifics made. And now it is specifics we must use in practicing. We give them to the Holy Spirit, that He may employ them for a purpose which is different from the one we gave to them. Yet He can use but what we made, to teach us from a different point of view, so we can see a different use in everything.
One brother is all brothers. Every mind contains all minds, for every mind is one. Such is the truth. Yet do these thoughts make clear the meaning of creation? Do these words bring perfect clarity with them to you? What can they seem to be but empty sounds; pretty, perhaps, correct in sentiment, yet fundamentally not understood nor understandable. The mind that taught itself to think specifically can no longer grasp abstraction in the sense that it is all-encompassing. We need to see a little, that we learn a lot.
It seems to be the body that we feel limits our freedom, makes us suffer, and at last puts out our life. Yet bodies are but symbols for a concrete form of fear. Fear without symbols calls for no response, for symbols can stand for the meaningless. Love needs no symbols, being true. But fear attaches to specifics, being false.
Bodies attack, but minds do not. This thought is surely reminiscent of our text, where it is often emphasized. This is the reason bodies easily become fear’s symbols. You have many times been urged to look beyond the body, for its sight presents the symbol of love’s “enemy” Christ’s vision does not see. The body is the target for attack, for no one thinks he hates a mind. Yet what but mind directs the body to attack? What else could be the seat of fear except what thinks of fear?
Hate is specific. There must be a thing to be attacked. An enemy must be perceived in such a form he can be touched and seen and heard, and ultimately killed. When hatred rests upon a thing, it calls for death as surely as God’s Voice proclaims there is no death. Fear is insatiable, consuming everything its eyes behold, seeing itself in everything, compelled to turn upon itself and to destroy.
Who sees a brother as a body sees him as fear’s symbol. And he will attack, because what he beholds is his own fear external to himself, poised to attack, and howling to unite with him again. Mistake not the intensity of rage projected fear must spawn. It shrieks in wrath, and claws the air in frantic hope it can reach to its maker and devour him.
This do the body’s eyes behold in one whom Heaven cherishes, the angels love and God created perfect. This is his reality. And in Christ’s vision is his loveliness reflected in a form so holy and so beautiful that you could scarce refrain from kneeling at his feet. Yet you will take his hand instead, for you are like him in the sight that sees him thus. Attack on him is enemy to you, for you will not perceive that in his hands is your salvation. Ask him but for this, and he will give it to you. Ask him not to symbolize your fear. Would you request that love destroy itself? Or would you have it be revealed to you and set you free?
Today we practice in a form we have attempted earlier. Your readiness is closer now, and you will come today nearer Christ’s vision. If you are intent on reaching it, you will succeed today. And once you have succeeded, you will not be willing to accept the witnesses your body’s eyes call forth. What you will see will sing to you of ancient melodies you will remember. You are not forgot in Heaven. Would you not remember it?
Select one brother, symbol of the rest, and ask salvation of him. See him first as clearly as you can, in that same form to which you are accustomed. See his face, his hands and feet, his clothing. Watch him smile, and see familiar gestures which he makes so frequently. Then think of this: What you are seeing now conceals from you the sight of one who can forgive you all your sins; whose sacred hands can take away the nails which pierce your own, and lift the crown of thorns which you have placed upon your bleeding head. Ask this of him, that he may set you free:
Give me your blessing, holy Son of God. I would behold you with the eyes of Christ, and see my perfect sinlessness in you.
And He will answer Whom you called upon. For He will hear the Voice for God in you, and answer in your own. Behold him now, whom you have seen as merely flesh and bone, and recognize that Christ has come to you. Today’s idea is your safe escape from anger and from fear. Be sure you use it instantly, should you be tempted to attack a brother and perceive in him the symbol of your fear. And you will see him suddenly transformed from enemy to savior; from the devil into Christ.
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