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Amab tgirl here, was just wondering how any one of you relate to this i mostly always felt a lot of gender envy towards femboys, or any guy that could easily look like a girl, and on top of that, i would absolutely get ultra envious of mtf timelines.
It kinda always made me question myself a lot, because i never felt any sort of envy or anything towards cis women Peeps like finnster would always tear me to shreds just by looking at em

Guys pls help me I scored 95% in commerce stream but im intrested in tech thinking of doing bca in data science(4 years) and then MS in CS from abroad. But my relatives are not agreeing they are saying I should do ca/cs eco something. What should I do now?
Which one has better scope? Also I want to settle abroad so which one will increase my chances?
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Hey guys! Let's do a fun 24 game series of Kiss, Marry, Kill. THE RUUUUULES ARE SIMPLE Every bracket I give 3 choices Choose a different one to Kiss, Marry, and Kill At the end of the 24 games the characters are organized into the category they were chosen the MOST for in the comments section (I will tally) and the comments will VOTE on who is the most kissable, marriageable, and killable in each category. If you have ideas for future games, leave them in the comments below!
Let's start off with some isekai. Your 3 choices are:
Emilia (Re:Zero) Aqua (Konosuba) Asuna (Sword Art Online)
For me this is easy. Emilia is the Kiss (The most passionate kiss, she's so adorable, and she has no idea how kissing works...IF YKYK) Asuna is the Marry (Come on, she believes marriage is pragmatic as well! Asuna might be best girl for me out of every anime I watched, so easy Marry. Cute, strong, tsundere, caring, what's NOT to like?) Sorry Aqua, but you are the Kill (I LOVE AQUA, BUT SHE IS ESSENTIALLY USELESS AND COMPARED TO ASUNA AND EMILIA WHO ARE MY TOP 2 BEST GIRLS AQUA MUST GO)

Today I “got” a bad review. While the post didn’t specifically mention my name - my name was at the top of their receipt. The review mentioned that the food was tasteless and gross. I wasn’t able to check on them in time as I was the only server and super busy. However, when I got to the table, they had ate everything and made no comment of how the food was bad. Also they ordered an almost $20 wine pour which was a 9 oz pour maybe thinking it was the happy hour pour (6 oz). They didn’t specifically say they wanted the happy hour one they just said a 9 oz glass of the wine. They said the wine price was ridiculous as it cost more than a bottle in the review which I completely agree with. I wish I would’ve gotten there sooner to check and see how the food was. But I also wish they would’ve spoken up so I could’ve resolved the situation and given them a discount. They didn’t directly say the food was bad I made a joke like “looks like you guys really enjoyed it!” since it was gone and they agreed. They didn’t mention anything about happy hour wine and didn’t mention the price to me. At the time I was finishing out 3 tables and got triple sit. Throughout the service I brought their drinks, foods, refills, asked if they needed anything, and if they wanted any dessert or if there was anything else I could do for them. I know there’s nothing I can do now except use this as a learning experience. I struggle with really bad anxiety and feel in the spotlight right now. Again, the review didn’t directly mention me but I’m so embarrassed and worried what my managers might say.

As a Bears fan, I don’t like seeing a division opponent get “their guy” but thats what it feels like for Detroit right now and I can’t help but tip my cap to Goff.
When the trade went down I didn’t envision Goff getting another big contract but he’s earned it.
I didn’t think Stafford ever got his due, conversation for a different post, and when Detroit traded him away I was so happy.
In the end this trade really worked out well for both parties, LA got a ring, and Detroit is in contention for one.

I'll keep looking back on it. They were three years older than me. An adult when I had just finish my sophomore year. I keep imagining what I would have thought from the outside. I cared for them so deeply and no one suspected anything but the things I let them do I wouldn't let anyone else do. Even if I loved them. I even asked for this specific thing but I can't stop thinking about how I hate the scars and the idea of anyone else doing it. I have their initial on my chest now. Permanently. I just can't stand to see it. I don't want anyone else to see it and I don't even know why I asked for it. We were only three years apart but they held so much power over me. They may have broken it off but what if this was the end goal? They admitted they agreed to date me as a joke so what if it's all been a sadistic joke ending with me hating myself. I truly don't know what I should do. I'm almost 18 and they are all I knew for over two years. It's like they said the right things at the right time and the wrong things just to make me doubt myself but never the relationship. Now they're sill friends with people that are in their sophomore year. I watch him grope one of them and draw on her chest. She's turning 16 and he's going to their birthday party. Isn't it weird to be a 20 y/o going to a sweet 16 for a non family member? He said he had all these mental conditions(DID namely) but disregarded mine so easily(BPD mostly). He sounded insane looking back on it. “i should have wings” messaging me for hours about how they need help figuring out how to shower because this alter is only 4. After a while when I didn't want them to be as violent sexually that's when they started to drift away. Is it all because they tricked me into liking the blood?

I just don’t get it. We dated for three years. He met someone new after two months and within a few days asked to date her. They only dated in person for one week and now they’re doing long distance. I just don’t understand.

The worst part is the aftermath. Not getting those calls or texts like the good morning ones from you anymore. Not making plans to hangout anymore. Not getting to know about all of your favorite things and all about you. Just sitting looking at a wall and crying because you fucked up the best thing you ever had and ever will have. Pretending like you’re okay in front of everybody so nobody suspects anything. Acting like it doesn’t bother you when you see her with her new boyfriend. Not even being able to have conversations anymore because things are different now when you used to talk to them for hours about anything and everything. Not wanting to hear her name because it’s just going to remind you of her. Not wanting to go to places you guys went to because it brings back those memories. Losing her was the worst thing that has ever happened to me. But the aftermath of it and going through it again and again in your mind hurts just as much.

Hi everyone. I'm a 22 year old guy. Since I was 14 years old, I have developed severe cystic and nodular acne on my back over the years. It started slowly, but really ramped up over the years. Things took a turn for the worse when I was around 17 years old, this is when some acne started turning into nodules on my shoulderblades and back. I have around 15 of them on my back and shoulders now in total. It looks like something out of a horror movie, absolutely disgusting.
I've visited dermatologists before, like 3 times, but none of them actually want to address the root cause of the acne, they all just want to put me on Accutane, something I am against.
At this point, I'm not a teenager anymore who can just chalk this all off to puberty. I'm growing more frustrated with myself. It's more and more annoying to watch your body work against itself. Every day about 2 pimples go away (and leave scars) and 2 new ones appear on my back. My back is now almost entirely covered with previous scars. It's bad.
I have a feeling something's wrong with my body internally (big surprise, I know). One of my parents has hypothyroidism, and the other has had some h pylori issues a few years ago. Who should I go to? A gastroenterologist? Yet another dermatologist? Every primary care or dermatologist just tells me to shut up and start Accutane. I want someone to check my hormone levels, my gut, my thyroids, everything that can lead to an acne problem. I've had blood works done over the years and nothing abnormal has ever emerged. I had an episode of Henoch-Schonlein purpura in 2016 if that matters. Other than that, I'm a healthy dude. I just want some advice.

I (F23) and my ex-boyfriend (M28) were together for one year. This was my first serious relationship. We lived together for three months and went on a one-month trip together. Everything seemed fine; he met my parents, and I met his several times.
I thought everything was going well, but one day ago, he broke up with me out of nowhere. He said he had been thinking about it for a while because he’s almost 30 and doesn't know who he is and wants to be alone. I am completely heartbroken. He did this once before, six months into our relationship, but came back after 10 days. After that break, things seemed to get better. Of course, we had our couple fights, but nothing major.
I don’t know what to think about this. I have cried so much I feel like I can't breathe. He wanted to end things on good terms and said we could still be friends and that he would always be there for me. I told him I can't be his friend right now because I am so heartbroken. This was a major shock for me.
I called him twice, crying, hoping he would change his mind, but he didn’t (I know it was dumb). I need to see him in a month to get my things since I’ll be traveling for work and can’t do it sooner. I don’t even know how I will travel without crying every second.
Can someone tell me if he will come back? Why did he do what he did?
Also, how can I ease this unbearable pain?

Hi Guys/Girls!
It’s been a while…. All my life I wanted to get in shape and was struggling with weight loss.
My main struggle was inability to adjust my lifestyle and my goals. For example, I simply wanted to be lean, but I did not want to be accountable and disciplined. I wanted quick overnight results, I did not want to follow the process.
One day I said enough is enough and I decided to change my approach and finally get to the results I wanted. I read a lot of materials, which actually were contradicting, I watched different videos, which presented many approaches and diets, but again there were too many options to pick from.
At the end, I decided to try several things and adjust as I progress. It feels that I found a solid formula for success in the weight loss. I called it “3P Way”. It consists of three pillars:
1). Calorie Tracking 2). Weight Lifting 3). Daily Steps
I got amazing results with this approach. Was able to lose ~40lbs, increased my longevity , and so on.
The overall method is very easy to follow , I would be happy to share more details with anyone, but in a nutshell you need to do three things: track calories and be accountable for what you eat( be I a slight caloric deficit), do weight lifting (3-5 times per week), and hit your daily steps ( preferably 10-15k)
BUT, there are some nuances , which are very individual based on who you are.
If anyone interested, ready to guide and educate!

I have two siblings with disabilities. One is legally blind and the other is a brittle diabetic with pain issues. Both have made bad choices in their lives both have made bad choices in their lives many bad choices.— many bad choices. My older sister and her husband and my husband and I have worked hard and have a decent income and standard of living in the past five years I moved to southern state and all of my siblings came and live near me. In fact, my sister lived with me for three years, and I went away on vacation and my brother appeared to my home as well, my older sister and her husband built a lovely home and took my brother in. When my daughter came to live with me while her husband was deployed to get help with her children, my other sister moved in with the oldest sibling. We are now all going to inherit a decent amount of money from an older relative, instead of trying to get some independence, one sister has decided she’s going to give money to her children who are basically low functioning because of their own bad choices. My brother receives his medical care through Medicaid, which he will lose if he takes the inheritance, he lives a very nice lifestyle with my older sister, and has become accustomed to upper middle-class living. They each only pay about $400 a month for room and board. My one sister is constantly going to the doctor. My brother spends his money on musical and sound equipment. My husband has said he does not want to have my siblings living with me anymore. My brother-in-law feels the same. My oldest sister has many health problems and he is in charge of her care. He told me he did not plan to take care of my other siblings. We feel my brother should decline the inheritance so it will be divided among us and then we can give money toward helping to buy a home for them to live together. My brother doesn’t want to do that and my sister wants to give her money to her children. in probate and won’t be settled until the fall. At this point, I don’t know what to do. We are not against helping them, but feel that they need to start taking responsibility for their lives. They don’t appear to want to do this. I feel if my one sister gives money to her children then she needs to move out and has We are not against helping them, but feel that they need to start taking responsibility for their lives. They don’t appear to want to do this. I feel if my one sister gives money to her children then she needs to move out and have a deadline to do. My older sister is tied up in knots about the whole thing. I don’t know what to do. I am the executor of the will and have no say in what they do with the money except to say they’re not living with me. This puts a great deal of pressure on my brother-in-law I don’t know what to do. I am the executor of the will and have no say in what they do with the money except to say they’re not living with me. This puts a great deal of pressure on my brother-in-law any suggestions? . Any suggestions?

I'm good with the ones that show as a banner on the side, but they make the people in the ads fail and just say,I bet you guys can not get as high of a score as me, then when they make you try it, they either make it so that you can't do it and the play store/app store page just pops up when you click it, or purposefully make it so that it's imposible I'm making an entire community about people being dumb in ads so stay tuned for another post about that

Boss and District Manager make me quit, costs them big time I'll start by saying that I never thought I would be on here, but after listening to SLASH, Am I The Jerk, and Ripe on Youtube I thought it time to tell my story.
For context, I (M 23) used to work at an electronics and entertainment store for three years and quit due to issues between workers and management. I had worked with a friend (M 36) at this place for a year or so. This friend was a good guy and great to hang out with when things weren't busy. He would find a job at another company and we would keep in touch as he would come in and chat occasionally. He would become a manager at one of these stores a small distance away. Each time he would try to sway me to come and work for him. I still liked what I was doing then and didn't think it was the right time to switch jobs. But again, due to management issues, I finally decided to quit and take up my friend's offer.
For the remainder of this story, my friend will be referred to as Dumb Boss. After a week or so I started at this new job I will not name, but they sell mattresses and rhyme with Jeep Hummer.
The first month of the job went very well as Dumb Boss trained me and another new employee, and the pay was very nice, and the work was nice with small amounts of actual labor. By the second month, things were doing okay as Dumb Boss continued to train me and the other employee more, but it started to change as my training would be halted in the process every time before I got to even finish. He would continue to do this every single time I was being trained, and stop it mid-session and start from scratch the next day I worked with him. I would never be able to even finish most of the day's training and only learn beginning things. I would say more about the training but it would say too much about where I am from and am.
A small time later I would get the news that my grandfather would pass and would wake up early to get the news. I would inform Dumb Boss later in the day before my shift of what had happened. My call would be very short as I told him of the passing and asked if there was any way I could call out that day. He would show some sympathy and tell me I could get the day, but after that, he didn't know. I would have to bring proof of the death and I would have the obituary already to show. He would go on to tell me the next day that I was in as I would only have that day to grieve that I would not be able to get any more days for my grandfather's death as grandparents weren't supposedly covered under bereavement as directed by him and Dumb District Manager (He'll be relevant later). On the day of my grandfather's funeral, I would have to work and Dumb Boss would have off. Me and the other employee I worked with, and is smarter than me when it comes to job things, talked about the situation of bereavement and who counted. She would ultimately look this information up for me and show me that grandparents were covered under bereavement and the information Dumb Boss and Dumb District Manager was not true. This made me upset and frustrated, enough to punch holes in walls, but I didn't. I would call Dumb Boss and tell him I was upset that the information he had given me was wrong and that I had missed my grandfather's funeral, something a person can't go back and do again. He apologized but looking back on it that phone call he showed little remorse or care. The next time I worked with him the same could be said in person. I would get no apology or communication from Dumb District Manager either about the situation. This was strike one.
Skipping some time to the next event I and everyone else were to attend a meeting for the whole district at a store about 100 miles from where I lived (Dumb Boss would have his own the day after ours). I was paid for the travel and had arrived at the store and worked with everyone that had shown up. Enter Dumb District Manager who was there for the meeting and mostly stayed on his computer the entire 8 hours we were all there. I thought everything went very well for my first meeting like this as we were being trained better than at our own stores. The next shift I worked with Dumb Boss and thought it would be a decent day, but would not be. I greet him and get ready as the store hasn't opened yet, him telling me he has to talk with me once I have finished. We talk and he tells me that even though the meeting/training went well Dumb District Manager and a couple of others had reported to Dumb Boss, as he had wanted them to, that I wasn't as good at the meeting as I thought. They had reported to him that I had been overly fidgety, barely worked with others, and was dressed like a cartoon. Please keep in mind, that I am no top-notch person. I make mistakes and like many other people no 100 percent good at a job. I do have issues with my legs that require them to move. I was nervous around people I had just met and did communicate with people in the training. Finally, I didn't understand why I would be dressed like a cartoon when I was the same as everyone else; in a shirt and tie. We talked about it then and throughout the day what went wrong and why, even though did my best, I was being treated like a negligent employee. This would go on Dumb Boss saying things like this to me and telling me I am not cut out for this and to just quit. This was strike two.
Strike three would happen two months or so later when the store would have a massive sale and pressure was on me and the other employee under Dumb Boss as he would press to make quotas that month or we are faced to be chewed out by him following his chew out by Dumb District Manager. The final day of the sale I would receive a nice old couple and when finishing up with them as I talked with them and the other employee talked with them they had purchased an item and had left to wait for it to arrive. Dumb Boss would walk over to me after they had left. Dumb Boss would tell me that I had a choice after they had left, either leave for the rest of the day and take disciplinary. The second choice was to stay and lose the commission on the sale I helped the elderly couple with. Now I did not know what he was going on about and he told me that because the couple I was working with had been talking with had talked with the other employee and she had left the floor and went to the back to collect herself. I would later find from her that she was just frustrated about the sale and trying to reach her quota and not because of what Dumb Boss was bringing up. I decided out of my own frustration and everything else that had been happening to just take the rest of the day and come back the next shift refreshed and able to talk to Dumb Boss with calm and collect. I would return and talk with Dumb Boss trying to keep a level head and would almost lose it as he told me that because I left he reported it to me being sent home to Dumb District Manager. After choosing the option to better help myself financially and leave and save my commission I would be given the third much later option of getting the commission taken away, losing the pay from the lost hours, and taking a disciplinary action regardless of what I did. This was the option that was forced on me after we talked and I knew this was it.
I was done and would put my notice in on the job about two weeks later and only need to give one week as Dumb Boss wanted to hire a new replacement and train them before the holidays. He even had the audacity to set up an interview for my replacement right in front of me. I was done like I said but I wasn't going out without a bit of a fight.
Something they had taught us throughout this job had been to say something if we see something. This was implied for any sort of ethics violations or issues that couldn't be brought up to management and be sent to an outside company they work with and their H.R. department. Remember that sale that we had at the store, well the sale was meant for friends and family only and no one else. Dumb District Manager told everyone to use the sale on anyone, he didn't care who and wanted the "coupons" we used gone, and if we didn't make the quota chewing would happen. This was considered an ethical no-no and Dumb District Manager and Dumb Boss didn't care as long as the coupons were gone. I would send in the ethics complaint stating what had been going on with the coupons. I know what some of you are thinking, I could have gotten Dumb Boss and Dumb District Manager on harassment, lies, etc. but unfortunately, two things happened. I am not as smart to put things like the lies and harassment on paper and turn it into H.R. The second is that I did send things to H.R regarding what had been going on via the ethics and how I was being treated but this went on deaf ears as Dumb Boss already told them crap to get out from this.
Basically, I left the last day with not even as much as a goodbye or good luck. I didn't need it though as I had pretty much left my own goodbye for him and Dumb District Manager with the ethics complaint.
I didn't hear much of what happened after I left, but after calling the other employee I worked with did I get more info. Turns out the ethics complaint actually went somewhere. She told me that Dumb Boss and Dumb District Manager were under investigation and that they were both getting their own write-ups for what they had pulled and lost the commissions not just for one sale but for the entirety of that month's commission totaling around 15,000 dollars.
If you can't hurt them where it counts, hurt their pocketbook.
P.S. Never doing another sales job ever again.

I seriously thought this was a joke since it’s been floating around on my Instagram reels. I know Spotify makes weird mixes but I didn’t believe this one… I searched it up and sure enough it made me a gyat mix. I’m dying over here… Does this work for you guys too? 💀

I can't believe Season 3 will be released in less than 48 hours 😆 ! To celebrate the occasion (and kill time, to be honest), I decided to release my installment for AAPI Month. Since Kate, our lovely viscountess, Bridgerton showcased South India/Tamil heritage 🪷, I picked another region of India in honor of her. Let me know what you think:
HISTORY🧭: There are eight states that make up Northeast India, majority of those are known as the "Seven Sisters". Those are Arunachal Pradesh, Assam, Manipur, Meghalaya, Mizoram, Nagaland, and Tiropita (they have a "brother" state called Sikkim). The earliest recorded interaction with the British Empire occur in 1763, when the Kingdom of Manipur allied with them to combat the Burmese Kingdom. In 1823 (towards the end of the Regency Era), Manipur would officially become a "princely state" and ally with the East India Company. https://www.commonwealthroundtable.co.uk/commonwealth/eurasia/india/opinion-manipur-the-british-legacy/
SOUTHEAST & EAST ASIAN INFLUENCES⛩️: Compared to the other regions, Northeast India has more East Asian influences, particularly China (Ex. Tibet) and Burma (modern-day Myanmar).This can be seen with their genetics 🧬 , architecture 🏯, and cultural traditions 🎋. For example, Rongali Bihu (a holiday in Assam) has Tibeto-Burman roots. Furthermore, bamboo crafts are popular in Mizoram (popular during the Han Dynasty), Buddhism ☸️ is a major religion in Northeast India, and contains more non-vegetarian dishes than most of India. https://thegeopolitics.com/northeast-india-southeast-asia-revisiting-the-shared-cultural-past-while-paving-the-way-forward/
CUISINE🍛: The highest levels of meat consumption 🍖can be found in Northeast India. Furthermore, the popular dishes in this region take influences from Chinese, Burmese, Tibetan, and Nepalese cuisines. Popular dishes include: Jadoh 🍚 (basmati or red rice with pork), Muya Bai Wahan Chakhwi (pork and bamboo shoot curry with rice), Pitha (traditional rice cake), and Momo (dumplings that originate from Nepal). Lastly, they have a prominent beer culture 🍻, producing rice beers like Zutho, Apong, and Chuak/Chuwak. https://www.cntraveller.in/story/your-guide-northeast-indian-food/
POLO🐎: The modern rules of polo comes from Sagol Kangjei or Manipuri polo. In fact, the Manipuri pony (one of the five Indian equine breeds) was bred by local royalty for cavalry and polo. British tea planters were fascinated with the sport and brought in back with them in 1869. Polo is a popular sport in most of the countries apart of the "Commonwealth of Nations" (along with 77 other countries ) and the World Polo Championship 🏆 occurs every three years. https://lapolo.in/blog/manipur-beginning-modern-polo
CLASSICAL DANCE🎭: Two of the "Classical Dances of India" originate from Northeast India; the Manipuri Raas Leela (from Manipur) and the Sattriya (from Assam). The former is characterized as being more "introverted" and "subdued" compared to the classical dances. The dancer normally showcases peaceful body movements and soft expressions with the eyes. The purpose of this dance is to honor the Raas Leela, a love 💕 story between Radha and Krishna. On the other hand, the Sattriya is more vibrant, with the dancers having intricate footwork and expressive hand movements. This dance was used in conjugation with the narration of religious stories and other myths. https://www.holidify.com/pages/dances-of-india-272.html

My husband (33M) and I (33F) have been together for 16 years, married for 9. We were high school sweethearts, went to the same university, immediately moved in together then got married. We had our first kisses, first everything together. I absolutely love my husband. We’ve pretty much grown up together, and we both consider each other to be our best friend.
I have always had extremely long, vivid dreams. I love going to sleep because I can have epic cinematic dreams all night. So sex dreams can be really amazing. HOWEVER, a few years ago maybe, my husband mentioned that he only ever has sex dreams about me, and he was really offended when I told him I have sex dreams about other people. Not anyone in particular, sometimes him, sometimes people we know, sometimes celebrities or random made up people. He said he doesn’t like that I have sex dreams with other guys.
This has really been messing with me. My sex dreams have been 100% compromised and are extremely frustrating. Before, it wasn’t an issue because my husband basically didn’t exist in whatever dream I was having, but now when I’m dreaming of hooking up with someone he’s like, suddenly around the corner and I have to choose to stop or to sneak away and “cheat” on him. It’s all messed up.
A few weeks ago it got to the point where I literally asked him permission to have sex dreams about other people because I couldn’t think of another way around it, and he said no. He only wants me to have dream sex with him because he only has dream sex with me. I told him he absolutely has my permission to have sex dreams about anyone, but he said doesn’t really want to. Which is sweet, but holy shit. I’m not THAT great. And he’s otherwise not a controlling guy. Sometimes jealous, but never in an unhealthy way.
What the hell do I do? Am I wrong to want to have sex dreams about other people? Is this a normal sticking point in relationships that no one talks about?